So being confident is something that I have struggled with all my life and what has sometimes held me back from pursuing my dreams.
Have you ever wondered why confident people tend to be more attractive and even sexier than they actually are that's cause confidence attracts people.
And I've found out that a lot of people struggle(including yours truly😇😆) with confidence cause it's something that everyone faces at least to different degrees and that's kind of what prompted me to write this write-up so that you and I can take away the shyness from our lives and become confident (and sexy 😇😏).
So the first step in overcoming that shyness and bringing out that super sexy confident side of you is for you to be comfortable in your own skin .
Yes!!! you've got to like you for who you are and please stop comparing yourself to other people in a negative manner.
You've got to acknowledge that , yes! you've not got the 4 ,6 or even 8 packs than that other person has and that you don't have that flat stomach and extremely long legs.
And you've got to know that everyone was beautifully made including you. So just love yourself and the way you were built cause that's what makes you different, unique and totally awesome thanks other people.
Then the second step after being comfortable in your own skin is to then work on yourself .
Or do you think that cause that 4 or 6 or 8 packs is just gonna fly to your stomach by the power of the Holy spirit 😒 if you think so then my brother you're on a long thing 😒
And I'm not saying that means tomorrow morning you should start doing 300 push-ups right away , you've got to start small and finish big!!! Cause we all know that tiny drops of water makes a big ocean .
So you could just set a goal that everyday for a month when you wake up you're going to exercise for 5 minutes and trust me there's no better feeling than knowing that you have achieved a goal that you set by yourself.
Also the most important step to me is how you view yourself ..
Just imagine that there's a permanent mirror in front of you that everyone can see your reflection in the mirror and also how you view yourself in the mirror.
All I'm trying to say by that analogy is that how you view yourself ,what you think of yourself as an human being is how you will be viewed and thought of by others.
Trust me it might sound crazy but it's the crazy truth. So why don't you stop for a moment today and ask yourself what you think of yourself(do you think you're not beautiful or handsome enough or you don't have what it takes to do something or you are too dumb , whatever it is really).
By the time you understand yourself and you know that you want to work in yourself than you become a step closer to becoming a better you.
Also very very important is always having positive vibes and always try to smile despite any situation.
Always surround yourself with people that will impact you positively and thereby SENDING OUT NEGATIVE VIBES.
Here are some extra tips to becoming confident:
1.Start listening to yourself
2.Always have some "me time" for yourself: it could be just you chilling ,listening to good music and drinking garri and epa 😀.
3.think about the good things that you love about yourself .
4. Think about how you would like to improve yourself and what's holding you back from doing so and how to tackle them.
5.Be grateful for the people that you are surrounded with that impact positively into your life on a daily basis.
6.This might sound crazy but standing straight and try not to slouch when walking makes you look confident(it just gives you this air of confidence and all)
7.And this could be optional for some people but also try to have a closer relationship with God .
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I just wanna use this time to thank you all that have being reading and voting for this book it really means a lot to me 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘💚😘 so you can always comment your thoughts or just slide 🏂🏂🏂🏂 into my dm if you're shy.
September 26,12:55am
