You're Not Yourself

Drunk Angry Parents

So... Tonight I witnessed a lot, with my friend who was just trying to calm her sister down after her parents flipped out on her sister, at first I knew that this was just gunna be a night where there was just going to be a little fighting between the parents over something stupid, but it turned out to get a bit hectic with what my friend was hearing with me downstairs in the basement, there was a lot of yelling and arguing about a phone being taken away and then there were a few things that didn't not really need to be said to my friends sister and then before we knew it we herd crying and my friend felt bad for her sister, sooner or later her sister came downstairs balling her eyes out screaming "get away" as her parents were talking bad about her, I felt so sorry for her, and I sat there in silence knowing that if I got involved, I would have probably been told to go home or hit by one of the parents, I wasn't sure so I did what I did and sat there and observed the scene as I saw that everything was becoming a complete mess with my friend beginning to cry all because her mother call her a "whore" and a special ed kid... whatever that means, but deep down I knew that these things that my friend'a parents were saying weren't true, something made them get upset about something and that they had some issues today. The father was trying to be good but at the same time was trying to get on the mothers side of things and the mother was apparently saying things that really really hurt her daughter's feelings like extremely upsetting.
Things I would never call kids of my own, if I had any, I would be there for them and be understanding, but sometimes parents need to be tough on there kids so they can straighten them out, but the parents I have witnessed were not the friendly people I have met when first hanging out with my friend.

I have experienced my other friend who feels alone and doesn't feel cared by her parents because they yell at her too, being the only child in the house, sometimes I hope her brother and sister visit and stay for awhile just so things can settle down for her in life, that time I wasn't as supportive and wasn't sure what to do in that situation, and I wish I helped her more to get through that pain that's probably been locked away and hidden up in her heart. She's been about not the best influence in her life and is currently dating a drug dealer, at the same time I'm not sure of that relationship has continued because I hear different stories about this one person everyday, hoping that she's okay and that she has moved on in life safely and not in pain.

I have a caring heart, when someone is hurt I do the best I can to be there for them as if they were there for me, I hate letting the world effect other on there own and sometimes thing maybe I should help them in some way to get back on the right path in life.
Those people who are going through something needs to get a therapist and let those feelings out because holding them leads you to a place of guilt and pain, a place where you don't want to be in life, you sometimes need to push through the rough times and tell yourself that everything will get better and if it doesn't, go tell someone and let those feelings out and that person will be there to give there time to you to listen and support you as much as possible and give you the advice your willing to hear.

If your parents are fighting, don't even bother on getting involved it's probably not your fault or your fight to get involved in anyway, you'll only make things worse then it needs to be, things happen for a reason and sometimes we don't know why it happens it's just the universe trying to fix itself I sometimes like to think of it as.

So sit down with those crazy parents of yours and clear the air and tell them how you feel, they'll either be supportive and caring for you and will be able to help you or they might have other troubles on there own mind and can't help at all which only means you need to go to a friend and let them allow you to cope your feeling out to them because that's the true feeling in a real friendship.

I hope this helped to any of you who have gone through something similar to this.

The world loves you, give it a chance and love it back and be grateful for the life you have and get the help you need I your going through a lot of crazy stuff whether it may involve your parents or a friendship clearing the air makes you feel happier and in a buyer place then you are before.

-Serg