Possessed and Possessive (Completed)

Not a Chapter (Just want to talk about something)

So guys this is NOT a chapter if you want to skip it then please do. I just wanted to talk to you all about something that I feel is important and I feel I should because I have around 1.2k people reading this and I think this is the best opportunity to convey my message. I would've sent it out as a message to followers but because most of you don't follow me so I am writing it here.

Okay so guys I had made a friend here on Wattpad and we instantly became close. She is super awesome and I love her. She called me back around two hours ago crying. She had yet been broken up with an asshole of a guy and this time she was devastated because she thought she loved him.

She kept on crying about how much she loved him, how she is all alone now and why oh why can't real guys be like the ones we read about or watch in movies. I listened to her for a while and even tried to explain it to her but she didn't want to listen. Since then I have been wondering about what she said that real guys are just so different from the ones we watch and read about. I have also read a lot of comments here on wattpad where a lot of girls say the same thing.

And trust me, for a long time even I thought the same. I am going to tell you all my life story though I don't like talking about it but I will. Anyway, so there was a time when I was single and I wanted to have someone like Mr. Darcy in my life and I was just waiting for love to happen to me. It was then when my bestfriend proposed to me saying he had always loved me. Though I told him a straight no coz I didn't feel that way but he was persistent and he kept making me realize how much I love him and how he is the perfect guy (like those in books and movies). Then one day I said yes to him because I thought that indeed I am in love with him. In the beginning it was all great but then he started forcing me to kiss him and have sex with him. I told him I wasn't ready but he started harressing me. One day I slapped him and told him I am not going to do it with him and then he tried to rape me even though he knew I had been sexually assualted when I was nine by my uncle and how I felt about it. God knows how I had saved myself and I ran home in torn clothes. I had cried the entire night about how I couldn't get someone to love me and how pathetic I am and all that shit.

After that for a very very long time I didn't date because I had developed this strong hatred for men. I just hated them all. Even my father. Although he was and is the bestest father ever. But I hated him because he was a man. I would read sloppy romance novel and cry about how shitty a fate I have and stuff. And then I met my current boyfriend. He was my Ex's friend and he had ended all his relations with my Ex after his rape attempt. Anyway, he tried to talk to me and I used to just ignore him and all that. But then one day he got to me. I still didn't know how even after being with him for an year but he did.  But today after an year and a half I know. And that is because I loved him for who he is. I didn't compare to him with any Mr, Darcy or John or anyone else. That was because in my state I just didn't believe any real guy could be like that and so i didn't compare him.

And trust me my boyfriend isn't like anyone of them. There are times when he just drives me crazy because he's just not that understanding (unlike the fiction guys) and there are times when he understands my stupid acts (unlike the fiction guys who get jealous and stuff depending upon the situation). And now I have realized why are real men different from the ones in books and movies.

And the reason is simple: The fiction guys are a figment of the female minds imagination. And we females are compassionate, loving, caring, empathetic, etc. So of course the characters we spin are just like that. Then there is also the reason that we want a guy like that so we write about a guy like that. And as for male writers writing such characters, the fact is simplethey know that gets Readership, so why the hell not write about such non-existent guys.

So girls trust me on this that the chance of getting someone like Darcy and Edward is very bleak. So instead of comparing a good guy who happens to you to these fictitious guys, go for him and get to know him. And then you'll love him because then he'd be unique and different and so not cliche.

So all I have to say to that friend of mine and to you all is that don't follow books and movies, they are books and movies for a reason and not a part of the reality. Instead wait for love to happen to you and for that you have to wait for that great guy out there for you.

And while some of you may disagree but please remember this is my OPINION and being a human, I can be wrong :)

And so now that this is off of my mind I can start writing.

Lots of Love

-S