Imagine

21. To His Girl

Dear Lucky One,

Yes, I cannot address you anything less than the lucky one. Because you are the lucky one, the one with the most amazing human on Earth.

He is definitely the most amazing human on Earth, hands down. He is like a sip of rich hot chocolate on a rainy day, a refreshing breeze on a sunny day, he is the warmth you can't help but cuddle into during the cold wintry nights, he is bliss personified. When he enters your life, you know you're done for. There is no way this human could exit from your life, he enthralls your senses and increases your dopamine levels.

You're definitely lucky to have him. He may enter many people's lives but angels like him aren't able to live forever in anyone's life except for a special someone, and that special someone is you. You must definitely be an angel yourself because angels only get together with angels.

You don't know me, but I know you. I've heard enough about you to conclude that you are indeed an angel too. You're kind, gentle, smart, charming, caring and loving. You're a breath of fresh air, you are the calm sea that clears people's minds and bring peace within them. You deserve him, he deserves you. Like I said, Angels deserve Angels not mere mortals like me. Both of you are incredibly perfect in your own way and together, you create unparalleled perfection- that the world stops and stares in wonder.

I have a few things to tell you. I could have never hated you even if I tried, because nothing that happened was in any way your fault. Jealous? I wish I could be, but how can I when I know that a mere mortal cannot be with an angel? Sadness? Plenty but he is in safe hands with you, I know you will take care of him million times better than I ever did.

Just remember, things aren't going to be rosy all the time. Love is not and will never be a bed of roses with no thorns. Love is a scorching flaming metal rod, it gets harder to hold on sometimes but you have to try to hold it at least by a thread. It will be worth it. Life isn't tears and laughter all the time, it's a cycleof tears, then laughter and so on. Life is a cycle of good and bad one after the other.  Just don't give up. If your love is true, everything will be worth it in the end, trust me it will.

Guys aren't always supposed to be tough, they are humans too. They have hearts too. They have feelings too. Please let him rant, let him cry, encourage him to spill everything out- feelings, hopes, fears, everything. Hold him tight and let him cry his heart out. Stroke his head and let him know you'll always be there for him. Make him strong, look him in the eye, wipe his tears, make him smile and whisper words of encouragement from the heart. Strengthen him. Put him back together when he breaks down. He will do the same for you, please do it for him too. He will always try to keep a strong façade on, not wanting to worry you, but please don't let him stay strong for too long and burn to ashes. Make him trust you to open up and don't shut him out when he tries to open up. You'll regret it, badly.

Don't let the sparkle in his brown eyes die, that sparkle is his soul glinting. He has a beautiful soul, which lights up even the darkest corner on Earth. Please do anything to keep that light burning, that sparkle shine.

Don't be afraid to run into his arms and hug him tight, let his warmth consume your soul. Cry on his shoulder, rant to him in despair. He'll wipe your tears and will make you see the light. He will make you strong. His arms will be your most secure place, all worries in the world will disappear when you are in his arms. Feel free to stay there as long as you please, he isn't going to go anywhere.

He is a very simple man, not one for grand gestures and he loves anything simple.  A little time spent together with a meaningful conversation and cute cuddles is enough for him. You don't have to organize a candlelit romantic dinner in a posh hotel to make him happy, he finds beauty in simplicity. With him, you'll learn that love isn't expensive, it isn't extravagant gestures- it's little stolen moments of time, it's fluffy good morning/ good night texts, it's just gentle reminders throughout the day that he is thinking of you, it's him willing to kill his sleep for you, it's him waking you up early for you to study, it is him encouraging you to get closer to God, it is him giving a shy smile to you whilst passing by. Yes, he likes simplicity but you can occasionally splurge on him, if that makes you happy. He loves surprises (though he is very impatient and curious) and loves surprising you.