Absence of a father's love 💔

part 8

From today onwards I will be telling u guys about not only my pain but also some of my closest friends pain. The reason I m gonna tell their stories is that, our society consists of both the privileged n underprivileged people. For the underprivileged people, mainly their pain varies a lot. Some had financial problems, some had mental issues,some had alcholosim problems,some had family problem, some had domestic violence, some had traumatic issues,and so on. We as human beings should have the ability to understand other peoples pain before judging them at first. And also if we have the knowledge regarding this issues, then maybe we can even help them afterwards or in the future. My mama always says, Man live once, so while living together with each other once for a while, why should we argue with each other during this short period of time? No one knows who will go sooner or later(die). While living out lives, we should understand each other's pain and share happiness too. That's what I believe. Yeah if we live together we would fight sometimes, even dogs n cats too. But it doesn't mean we will kill each other. We just have to compromise the problem with each other n come up with a solution. If one can't then it is better to ignore instead of a fist fight.
And a note to everyone is that I have taken permission from them in writing their biographies, neverthetless that I didn't mean to expose their personal lives. But I believe through this writing platform, they would find courage n strength like me. Especially from the support I have received from my dear supporters and my loved ones. So ,I kindly informed u all to give her positive feedbacks despite of all her problems so that she can also have the courage to face her further problems very easily.
Among my closest friend, today I will be first telling u all the story of my closest sister friend from different mother. She is Leisna, who is always ready to listen to my problems despite the situation...
1.Leisna's biography .....

Leisna had two grandfathers. Her father was the son of the latter one. They had previous family problems.
Her real grandfather had died when her father was young. Hence her parents had to take care of her grandmother. Her grandmother had deep hatred towards her mother. The reason was still unknown to her till now. When leisna's mom was pregnant, her grandmother ate all the food including fruits,nuts ,etc which was brought for her mom's diet instead of giving it to the pregnant lady. Above all that, she didn't even take care of her pregnant daughter-in-law in looking after her needs. Her father who was in charge of cultural tourism was busy all the time. So he didn't have the time to look after his pregnant wife. He had been flying abroad most of the time for attending many other cultural shows and programmes. During this time, they didn't have any many problems. So her father did sent her mother's foods regularly. But little did he knew the real drama which was caused by his own mother who even drank the milk which was brought for his wife. Her mom would only eat Rice and some vegetables which was consumed for lunch n dinner at that time and nothing else. This caused Leisna to have weak immune during her birth. Even she was born after many days from the due date because of having a low immune body.
When she was born,she came out with a brown skin having dry skin like that of an old lady and also her body was very weak. When she was still a baby, no one wanted to take care of her, Due to her bad looks. So her mother had a hard time in taking care of her plus in managing the household chores. Even her own aunt refused to look after her niece due to her looks.
During her nursery days, no one wanted to be friends with her. Instead of making friends, she was bullied by her classmates all the time. Even her classmates snatched her lunch and ate all her food. If she refuses to give it to them, then they throw all her food from the lunch box. They even pinched her skin all the time. Even if she managed to get a friend, her first friend even took control over her.
When she got home, there were pinched mark all over her body. She never told her mother about her pain as she doesn't want her to be worried again and again. Instead she endured the pain all by herself and cried all night. She then asked her mom most of the time while crying 😭 to transfer her school as she couldn't hold it anymore. Even if her mother asked her the reason,she didn't tell her cuz she was still uncomfortable to talk about it. On seeing her daughter in pain for days,her mother then decided to admit her to a new school which is RkSDV,(our school, we studied together although I m a grade older than her) on her 2nd grade.
As she was earlier bullied by her classmates, she was a total introvert and didn't know how to approach other people. She was even bullied by her own cousin sister. So she usually would stay indoors all the time and shut herself in. So she didn't know how to socialize with other people and how to be friendly too.
At her new school, she was left all alone like an outcast. Still no one wanted to be friends with her. She ate her tiffin all alone.
But at her 6th grade, there was a whole new change. She met 3 new friends which is Me,Chingkheinganbi and Seejay.
They were her first friend. She was very happy that finally she had made new friends. But she was so stupid that she chose her bully cousin over them during one fight. We trusted her but she let us down cuz she was afraid at first and thought that if she didn't choose her family first, she might regret it later. Her father was always devoted to her family,so she thought like that too.. Little did she knew, she was being controlled by her bully cousin sister. Then she did get regret later. But to the contrast, she regretted that she lost her first friends.
But later on they forgave her for her mistakes taking it as an immature thing. Now she is feeled with guilt due to her previous sins. As we had already forgiven her,who was once a cheater, fraud,loser, she promised herself that she won't hurt them ever again in the future and treat them the best way she can. She never expected that we would have this kind forgiving nature.
In 2014, the 3 of us became an Exo L. The first MV that she watched was Exo Growl. And the first member that caught her eyes was Luhan ( now a former member of Exo) . But now her current bias is Oh Sehun.Then she got curious about the wonderful band and started searching everything related about them. Their stories, hardships, hard work, dedication,passion,patience influenced her. Then she met her 2nd family which is EXO L. Family.

At 7th grade, for a short period of time, there friendship was torn due to their previous incident. She was depressed as she lost her new friends. Her mother scolded her for her bad actions and for doing bad things behind her back. After a few months later, we forgave her and gave her a second chance. She worked hard to gain our trust again and promised never to make any further mistakes in the future. Then we became best friends forever. She always tried to help us in every way she can. But bad shadows followed to her family again. Her father's job got fired when she was at 9th grade. Then he became jobless. There was a bankrupt problem faced in the family. Her mom who was also a money collector started facing problems once her father got fired. She didn't get money anymore. Her mom being an Orthodox Lady would believe in black magic. She believed that this was actually created by one of the family members. Her father who was once a soft hearted person became a completely changed person overnight. He started behaving like the devil himself. Her father wasn't actually an alcoholic person in the past . But after the arisen of many family problems, he started using alcohol to distract himself from the reality. This incident happened after the birth of her younger sibling brother. Their parents had lot of instant fights within the household. He started Mistreating her wife as he thought he was the reason that the whole family broke down in peaces. Still the parents fight continues till now on...
At 9th standard......
To be continued....