If it was me, I would always try to go with the person that wants everybody to know that they are with you. Someone who doesn't try to keep you a secret and makes their feelings for you KNOWN. I would choose the kind of person who will take me to see their family with them and shows affection towards me publicly so that everyone will know that they're taken. I'd rather be with a person who misses me the second I'm not around and someone who is going to be honest with me ALWAYS, no matter how difficult it may be for them. You should want someone who will make plans for the two of you and will introduce you to others as their boyfriend or girlfriend without being ashamed of it.
I would much rather be with someone who prefers to call me just to hear my voice instead of texting me because they just "don't feel like talking on the phone." It is so hard to find someone who genuinely cares about how your day is going or how it's been or someone who would rather see your face instead of nudes. I'm gonna want somebody who goes home and talks to their parents about me and actually tries to put effort into a relationship with me. A person who loves taking cute pictures with me and is loyal to me but also loves me as much as I do them.
I'm not asking for too much. I'm just asking for respect. I don't believe that is too much to ask for. Respect should always be a given thing in any kind of relationship. We deserve respect.
PSA: Sorry in advance that some of these entries aren't as long as the others. I just write them on here as these things come to mind.
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