Someone please tell me that I am NOT the only person who constantly tries to give the same person the benefit of the doubt no matter the situation and no matter how many times they have let you down. It's one of those things where you are just hoping that the outcomes of things will be different each time and that they will change. Yet, deep down I know and am well aware of the fact that I am just going to be disappointed. I know that they will never change and that they are going to be doing the same shit over and over again no matter who they hurt. Some people are just completely heartless.
Why is it that we always tend to give people the benefit of the doubt all the time when they don't deserve it in the slightest bit. We give them a million chances to get it together and at some point, you have to stop giving out chances when there hasn't been a change.
I had to give up on people multiple times no matter how much it hurt me to do so. I never wanted to give up on them. But, I came to a point when I started to realize how badly it is affecting ME. They drag me into this bad path with them and drag me into this deep hole and that just isn't fair to me.
People will tell you anything almost to get you to stay or to get another chance knowing that they don't deserve it. They'll tell you one thing and DO another. ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. Someone convincing you that they are going to be better, DO better, and CHANGE but then they fail to do that because they never planned on doing any of the things that they said they would do... THAT is purely a form of manipulation and it is TOXIC. The best thing to do is to just remove yourself from the situation and get out of it. YOU DESERVE BETTER. Don't let people manipulate you.
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