A Girl's Guide Book

Socialising

{tips for socialising}

Technically this is for when you've basically been in your house for quite a while and then you totally don't know to to socialise properly. Or if you're just not good with people in general and have always been the quiet one around everyone. I just wanna help you become easier around friends and family because i think we've all somehow locked ourselves inside from the world and everyone needs that every now and then but i wanna help you feel just a bit better around others ;)!

1. Make sure you have good, sensible greetings. Like okay if you're talking to a friend you might say things like "hey" or "hi" or "waddup" or "sup" or just high things like "dAH BITCH IS IN DAH HOUSE YOOO" etc. but when you're talking to someone older than you or someone that you just don't know; its kinder and more respectful if you say things like "hello" or "hi" or "good morning" or "good afternoon" or "good evening" or "good night" because to me its like a little reminder that you know what time it is during the day and you're not a dumbo.

2. Usually in the streets, if an elderly walks past, people nod and smile towards them and honestly i think everyone should do that to not just the elderly; but to everyone in general. Like if someone hit their shoulder against yours by accident, don't just groan or roll your eyes about it, just quickly say "it's okay" or "are you alright?" or just chuckle about it. It gives off a really good vibe and in my opinion i absolutely love people like that *shrugs*.

3. Always know that if you're on the edge of breaking down in public or wanting to scream and shout at someone; all you have to do is just take a deep breath! Like honestly some people take it far more seriously and start doing some dramatic breathing exercises right on the spot but all you have to remember is; the world is like a garbage bag. lets say you're the perfect little untouchable piece of NOT garbage in there while everyone is a mixture of apple cores and potato peels and rotten left overs of mcdonald burgers. all YOU have to do is just remember that you're far more beautiful than all those bitches and if you weren't in that garbage bag it just wouldn't feel complete. (hey no offence to all those apple cores and potato peels and left over pieces of mcdonald burgers okay? ur all beautiful too)

4. Sometimes you might have a different style or fashion sense from everyone else and yes, you might get a lot of stares and looks from your toe to your head but seriously babe ignoreeeee!! In my opinion; i just think its fab how people are creating more fashion styles to this world-or should i say "garbage bag"!!! *everyone claps and cheers for my amaze joke* (if u didn't get that; take 9 steps away from me because my heart is broken now). So please be original and have in mind that when people look at you, they're just like "woah" because of the simple clothing that you turned into something much more :))

5. I think you should treat yourself with a couple of friends or with your gf/bf because ANYWAY you do need some fresh air and socialising with your friends is gonna help you a lot too. Or just a simple trip to Taco Bell or Starbucks with your family or sis/bro or take your dog out on a walk or do other things like totally change your room and give it a different, unique look! Like just be active even, you can simply go to the gym or go swimming for all i know! Just get more fresh air yay 😊

hope i helped ;)!
hey loves! sorry if this update didn't mean much to some of you but i really really wanted to help some of you find confidence while coming in contact with friends and family and that can be very hard when you go in...like a phase sort of. and tysm for all the votes and reads, it all makes me very happy that you guys are responding back too.

i just rlly wish you guys would comment more..? like on every paragraph comment some little note but don't do that if you don't want to!

i love you, thank you so much munchkins!!

also: feel free to just comment anything you want guides/tips about and i'll be sure to try to do it for you <333

-ily♥︎♥︎♥︎