A Girl's Guide Book

Confident

{tips to being more confident}

Have you always been nervous or shy? Or scared of what people will think of you if you dressed in a new fashion? Maybe embarrassed of the way you look? (but i bet you look beautiful all the time). Then I hope this guide somewhat helps you to be more confident with yourself!! (i sound like a pervert im so sorry, carry on)

1. One key to being confident is not minding what others think about you. I mean seriously just think about it, why bother being scared or embarrassed of a bunch of students who will soon die and become practically nothing in your life? "Dress to impress" is bullshit!! It's about the personality, not the godamn style!! Imagine how people were before "clothing" was a thing!! (they'd probably judge dick and boob sizes js)

2. Sometimes just asking a couple of generous and kind friends about what they think of whatever you're scared about helps a lot so you know what others are thinking but not that it matters by any chance!! The mirror doesn't always tell the truth so ask some good friends for advise on how you look. But don't take the "don't listen to what people say" rule too seriously! Dress nicely and don't let people change your thoughts about your fashion (only if you seriously need to change your thoughts then okay)

3. Smile and keep your head held high! Showing how happy and confident you are will make others enjoy your company. No one likes dull and life-less people so have a little fun. #yolo you know?

4. Don't over apologise! I do this all the time but i guess its a habit but imagine you bumped into someone and ending up saying "sorry!" until their practically done with your apologies! Say it just two times with an apologetical smile to show that you care for others feelings. Don't say sorry while walking away! Thats really rude and not a good appearance to anybody.

5. Take it slowly. It will surely surprise people if you walk into the classroom with full on confidence! Take easy baby steps and people will notice and like how you turned out even more!

Hope I helped! :)
whAT THE HELL IM SO SORRY MAN I JUST GOT SO BUSY WITH SCHOOL I NEVER GOT TO UPDATE AND I JUST GOT TIME TO UPDATE NOW AND THIS IS A STUPID THING TO DO A GUIDE ABOUT BUT AT LEAST I UPDATED EH? ily all so so so much and tysfm for all the votes it mean the world to me !!

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