A Girl's Guide Book

Around Crushes

{how to act 'normal' around your crush}

WARNING: There will be A LOT of "her/him" and you WILL get confused. I did that because we're not all straight and I did say in my description for this book "But why would you read this if you're a guy?". That doesn't mean when I say "her" it's for a BOY to say. Some girls are bisexual or else lesbian and i don't have a problem for that so i added it in because I respect them and include them in a lot of things.
Sorry guys haha, here's it all!

Scared of being yourself in front of your crush? Nervous he'll/she'll won't fall for you because of your awkwardness? Well this guide might just help you get over that fear!

(im not even kidding im bashing my head into the wall like i go stupid around my crush and now im making a guide about it what the fUCK? anywayy on with the guide)

1. Be fun! If you act stiff or harsh and he/she has feelings for you, he/she may reconsider them. If you find conversations getting awkward, try teasing him or her. It almost always works. (or if you just hate people and can't be 'fun' then just plug your earphones in and ignore the bitches oh yeah)

2. Don't claim all the attention for yourself. If you want to, talk to him/her and ask about his/her life. Let him/her ask about yours and just relax. (aka don't be a bitch ass horny cunt who's desperate and talks about herself all day long and OH and don't flip your hair so he/she smells your cheap perfume because honey, fuck u)

3. Forget yourself when in conversation with him. Just listen to what he says, let it soak in, and feel his emotions by mirroring his facial expressions. But let him finish what he's saying before you ask questions. Nobody likes an interrupter. Look also into his/her eyes deeply for him/her to appreciate how sincere you are in listening to him/her. Remember that understanding is quite significant. (please don't stare at their lips i mean c'mon bruh)

4. Be friends with his friends. Talk to them like a buddy. They'll remember you as a 'cool chick' and they'll speak highly of you to your crush. No flirting though! You don't want them to think you're easy or develop a crush on you!

5. Another tip to help a conversation go along smoothly is to say: "hmm" and "yeah". Try to be agreeable when you can. This will make him/her want to continue talking to you. And it's an ego boost too; he'll/she'll be happy that you're interested. (don't stare at the ceiling or don't bite your nails like seriously kids)

6. Don't obsess. If your friends always hear how you think he's/she's the best thing in the world, they could let it slip. Think of him/her as a friend, and he'll/she'll like you! (aka don't talk about them 24/7 because first, thats like really stupid because it sounds as if thats the first time you ever got a guy/girl to like you or else you will get judged so please follow these instructions :)

7. If you were friends with him/her first and you're just developing feelings for him/her, don't spring it on him/her suddenly because he/her might not be experiencing the same emotions for you, yet. Just play it cool and flirt a little. Don't flirt TOO much, he'll/she'll think it's some kind joke and they'll get freaked out so take it nice and easyy)

8. Don't be afraid to be yourself with just a pinch of wild. Don't be afraid to call a little attention on yourself. Boys like outgoing slightly wild chicks who know when enough is enough. Don't go over the top, remember most guys will be scared when a crazed girl is running at them. But don't be afraid to be yourself! HONESTY is the best policy. (appreciate me for a second guys *takes a moment to appreciate me* thx k bye)

Hope I helped! :)
Thank you for 20+ reads lol and 10+ votes! I will be doing some more guys and they'll get better i promise ^.^

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