Edit: since more people are reading i shall give a few things to keep in mind. 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗮𝗶𝗻 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗮𝗿𝗴𝘂𝗲𝘀 𝗮 𝗹𝗼𝘁. 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁'𝘀 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝗿𝗮𝗶𝘀𝗲𝗱 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁'𝘀 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲. too much gaslighting from a parent as a child turns you into a argumentative person who is desperate to prove themselves because of the unfair power stucture. also if you didn't see it in the description: 𝙏𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙗𝙤𝙤𝙠 𝙙𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙨 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙖𝙡 𝙞𝙡𝙡𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙞𝙣 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙨𝙪𝙧𝙧𝙤𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙗𝙡𝙖𝙘𝙠 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙢𝙪𝙣𝙞𝙩𝙮. 𝙋𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙞𝙣 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙛 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙘𝙖𝙣, 𝙡𝙤𝙬𝙚𝙧𝙘𝙖𝙨𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙚𝙣𝙙