What I wish I knew as a student...✐

14. How to be prepared 👍

Let's go straight to the point.
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You simply cannot :D

Wait! Don't just go!-

You may not have a way to escape the reality but that doesn't mean it can not be "Well done"

We fear the unknown and that's what can never be prevented.

There's always new things to discover in life, no matter what experiences you have, how long you have lived. We're limited folks!

I'm gonna be frank with you. When I graduated from high school, it suddenly struck me.
I was left alone coping with decision that could turn my whole future upside down. I'm not saying I regret them but I do wonder what would have become of me if I chose the other path? 🤔

What I'm trying to say is that despite knowing what is ahead of me, I'm still very unsure but I just simply go with the flow.

I learned to let go. 🗻🌋

As stupid as it sounds like, we just worry too much. It's always the worst scenario that pops in our heads as soon as we think about the problem.

We fail to acknowledge the fun behind it.

I mean it's kinda funny how we break heads just overthinking the problem that is actually pretty harmless. 🤷‍♂️

Sometimes fear just makes you realize how it feels...

Feels to be alive. 🤍

But you can still prepare yourself for minor things in life. Just some basic reminder for you:

Don't think about skipping it for later. If you plan to do it, do it! No excuse!

Trust me. I'm not talking about just studies and gains in the gym.

I'm talking about your future plans you aim for.

If you want to get a straight A in your next exam, study and do it with heart! 📚

If you want to appear more confident in life and not embarrass yourself for a meeting, just breath and fake it!
Imagine being stuck in a room with people already liking you rather than judging you. 😱 😨

From my 19 years of experience, trust me when I say, "Nobody gives a damn about you. Everyone is busy thinking about themselves." 🥴😫

Because it is simply the truth. While you fear being judged on, the person you fear on are thinking the same. They probably just hide it better and therefore appear much more confident.

I do struggle sometime with my self hate thoughts but there are times I simply don't give a damn anymore. 👊😃

You will understand one day.

That's the only way to prepare yourself for the worst.

-Go with the flow
-Do it and stick to your own words / ideas!
-fake it ( because everyone does)
-You can do it.

Also, if things don't go your way...

Hey, we've all been there. Screw it mate. It happens. You gave it your best shot and if it wasn't meant to be perfect.

You're the only one who gives a damn. Therefore, give a damn and do it your way. Focus on yourself.