What I wish I knew as a student...✐

16. How to be attractive😏💋

I don't know why you clicked on this when you're clearly attractive enough 👀-

You see, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Some acknowledge your beauty and you fit into their standards and some just don't. 🤷‍♂️

Before you come at me with, "Oh yeah? But you have not seen me face to face yet!"

HEY! I do not judge people based off their looks in an instant. This is why I like social media because people do not need to see the person face face face and can clearly just judge off by the personality.

When you fall for someone's personality and know them well without seeing them first, then you have fallen for their personality rather than their outer beauty. And later on, when you see them, you just get the bonus since they are beautiful enough already to you. Isn't that beautiful? 😊

To be frank with you, I am just like the rest.

I have been through puberty, thought I was not enough and ended up pushing myself to be attractive for the wrong reasons. 😂 *sad*

As in I tried to stick to routines, worry about my calories intake, train everyday (just to wake up exhausted😩), do my facials routine, study hard and basically tried to please everybody. Sad part is I still do this 😔... but I'm trying to reduce that habit of mine.

And still with all the hard work and pain, my physique might have changed for the better and I could say I did go through a good glow up but what did I gain?

(Except for the great physiqu
💪🏽😃)

I still get treated the same 😂 being invisible to the most or being seen as an ass who sees highly of oneself 🙃

Well...

I felt like I was below average in not just looks but in general, life. So I thought I should boost myself up to be acknowledged by people. Ego rised up ⬆️

But the older I get, the more I realised how stupid I was and I'm not afraid to admit that 🤣😌

So don't change or push yourself to be liked and feared by others. Basically stop being so rude to yourself and force yourself to fit in a social beauty standard.

Everyone has their uniqueness and own beauty standard. ✨

So if you do change then for yourself only and stop thinking so low about yourself.

You're gorgeous already!🌹

But if you do want to be attractive in your own eyes 👀

Then do some of these:

1. Always stay clean 🛀

It's just the simple things that create a bigger impact. Life is too busy nowadays and people are always hassling. 🏃‍♂️

Sometimes they forget to clean up and rush out of their homes. Like I get that but it could be prevented.

As in wash and iron your clothes, clean your shoes (especially white sneakers), do your facial routine, take a shower (morning and night), use perfume (not too strong nor too less) and simply stick to it. Do this the day before.

These stuffs just takes 5-10minutes of your day. Do it!

Never forget to maintain your health and hygiene routine. 😤

We don't wanna look like we don't care for ourselves or want our potential partners to look like that, now do we?

2. Exercise 🏋‍♂️