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Turn-Ons & Turn-Offs

Pretty self-explanatory, let's begin.

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Turn-Ons

1. Good hygiene- A man who smells nice and a wears subtle cologne is a necessity. I mean, they could be profusely sweating though (like after going for a run for example) and I'd love it too. I'm weird.

2. A sense of humor- I'm a sucker for a guy who makes me laugh. If you don't act like a child sometimes, or don't have a sense of humor, then I am not interested. Have a nerf gun war with me, build a fort by the couch, spray me with the water hose, play videogames with me (a must), sing and dance with me.

3. A man who cares- Someone that can be gentle and compassionate when needed, not afraid to show emotions. He remembers my favorite music and movies, is spontaneously romantic, and pays attention to small details.

4. Good communicator- I love when someone actually hangs on to what I'm saying, listens to my ranting and rambling. And if you can reciprocate, even better. I want a guy who can communicate his feelings, because it tells me that they care. I don't want to be the only one who gives 100% of my heart and mind into the relationship. I want a guy to loves everything about me. Emotional connections are just as important as physical.

5. Intelligent- I love a man who can keep up a conversation with me, understand all opinions on certain matters, and someone who is perceptive. I want to be able to discuss something as random as having superpowers. He needs to be assertive, standing up for what he believes in. As far as athleticism, please (subtly) flaunt your strength. Be adventurous and enjoy sports (because I sure do).

6. Respectful and patient- I need someone who is respectful to their superiors, respectful to both my family and his, and is polite to strangers. In a restaurant, say thank you to the waitress (proper manners). Make me and everyone else around feel comfortable, and keep a level attitude. Befriend my brother and father, because if they like you, I love you even more.

7. Well groomed hair and sense of style- I strongly prefer short hair (Jensen Ackles and Colin O'Donoghue style) and if there is facial hair, keep it groomed (like Jensen and Colin's). I'm less attracted to red heads, but I don't automatically reject them. I like men who have a sense of their own style too. They dress preppy-ish but relaxed at the same time.

8. A man with a country heart- I don't need a southern gentleman (and I won't get one because I live in upstate New York) but I like men who love getting dirty. Riding four-wheelers, exploring the woods, jumping into rivers/swimming holes, or having picnics in fields are just so amazing. The down-to-earth, hardworking, and tender hearts of country boys are preferable. Don't need a country boy but I need a boy who loves the country/simple life.

9. Pretty eyes and a pretty smile- I don't have a preference on eye color, I just want eyes that are captivating. When I'm away from this guy, I want the image in my head to be him smiling, with his eyes so bright and lively. I want his eyes to tell me how he's feeling, I want his eyes to look at me with joy and love. And with the smile is the clean teeth necessity. I mean, breath isn't a huge deal to me (unless you just ate a food that I hate), but I want to kiss a guy with white teeth... not plaque covered, "I just ate McDonald's" teeth.

10. Wearing a man's clothes- I just find it comforting if I can wear a man's jacket, sweat pants, pajama pants, shirt, boxers, shorts, etcetera. If it smells like you, even better. I mean obviously I wouldn't want to wear used boxers and- well, you get the idea.

11. Backward hats- I just find it super attractive when a man wears his hat backwards. Like on a hot day, when a guy's playing football in the backyard with his friends... I melt. But don't wear it too often in public places like the mall, too often is too sloppy of style for me.