Mr and Mrs Unromantic

About Sreeja

hi All 

I am publishing this chapter to discuss about the comments received for previous chapter (the major dispute).

I thought it would be better to give my comments and opinion here about Sreeja than replying individually. Whatever I am typing here is my opinion about Sreeja. As most of the chapters are from sreeja's point of view, I wanted to clarify about Venkat and Subhi too.

As you all said, Venkat and Subhi are at fault most of the times. But from their perspective, they are trying to be jovial and casual with her. Infact Subhi advised Venkat and Sreeja to not show their differences or fight in front of everyone considering the family reputation . 

She even gave time for them to be alone and sort out their issues by themselves. Subhi planned so many things for the couples like photoshoot and outings and all. She very well knew both of them are shy type and would not think about going on dates or anything. 

 Whenever anyone in the function questioned her about the dispute happening between them, she in fact was supporting Sreeja and Venkat stating its just a small misunderstanding and nothing big as they think.

Subhi never interfered in their lives and indeed gave privacy most times. But certain times, she expected her brother to give the same affection and care which he was giving previously. Though Subhi was angry with Sreeja's tantrums and anger issues many times, she never showed her face directly or spoke anything to Sreeja. 

Any dislikes she has she would just talk about it only to her parents. She would not say anything to Venkat thinking he might get upset and would start shouting at her. 

On the other hand Venkat too, wanted a person in his life who would be mature and understanding. He wanted his wife to be adjustable with everyone and live a happy life. His family is not a male dominated one rather gives equal importance to ladies as well. 

How much ever differences are present, his family never shows it off in front of other people and sort it within themselves in their house. Infact only after Sreeja came, these kinds of fights were happening in their house. Before that only small arguments that happened will last only for few minutes. 

Venkat is a very calm person who handles all things cooly. But after marrying Sreeja, he is getting angry often because of her actions. 

Venkat wanted Sreeja to understand him. If his sister is kind of behaving like a usual girl not understanding him at certain times, he wanted atleast sreeja to give him peace by not pestering him. Sreeja with her behaviour before marriage, gave the expectation to Venkat that she will not be a normal wife who would pick fight for silly things. She was understanding before , did not expect certain things from Venkat like surprises, buying things for her and so on. 

She acted maturedly most of the times. But off late she was proving herself wrong.

On the other hand, Subhi is very pampered girl in her house. If she gets angry at anycost, her father will not remain silent. To him Subhi is first and then only Venkat. She is a typical little princess for her family. But at times she too adjusts . Her adamant behaviours are only with his parents and brother.

Venkat though he knew about Subhi well, also knew that Sreeja is not like subhi. But everytime Sreeja compares herself with Subhi, which only makes think about Sreeja otherwise. 

In everyone's perspective sreeja is actually jealous of Subhi for her getting affection and all things . If she did not get such kind of affection before from any one does not mean that Venkat should not give affection to his sister. 

More than all that , his parents called Sreeja's parents thinking that if they advise her she might listen rather than they explaining things to her. Chances are there that Sreeja might misunderstand them all for blaming her. But it only increased her anger thinking that they are complaining about her to her parents. 

When her parents are invited to discuss about this issue, her anger knew no bounds. It is Sreeja who has brought such kind of situation. Do you think any parents will be happy to hear that their daughter is fighting with everyone in the house? especially when the inlaws don't say anything harsh to her or shout at her ,instead they call her parents to advise her.

so that being said, I would say Venkat and his whole family are good expect Sreeja. Sreeja should not have even married Venkat to spoil his life. She will realise it sooner in the coming chapters. His life is doomed with marrying Sreeja.