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From: SnowyWe're Falling Back (CLS Series #3) has officially ended! ♡
To begin with, if you find yourself relating to Amby's family issues... I sincerely apologize if you had learn and gone through things the hard way, but I'm immensely proud of you for being here today—despite all of it.
You, don't have to feel guilty over removing or cutting ties with those who are harmful in the way you live. It makes little difference whether that person is a close relative, someone you love, a boss, a childhood friend, or someone you just met. You don't have to make room for others who have done anything to cause you trauma, pain, or made you feel worthless. It's a different matter if a person admits their mistake and makes an effort to change. Nevertheless, if a person neglects your feelings, violates your limits, and persists to treat you in a damaging manner, they need to go.
And, not because you severed the connection is not an indication that you despise them. You cut it in hopes that it might be pleasant and steady for you (also for them). Sometimes, it is time to make a decision that is going to cause severe pain but will also give you serenity. Learn to avoid letting the love you have for them to develop into servitude. Let them to dine alone if they are not pleased with what you brought to the table.
I'd want to remind you once more that you deserve someone who appreciates all of your twists and does not strive to untie them. You deserve a person is not going to condemn you on the grounds of your past. You deserve to be opted for and to be loved wholeheartedly. You are deserving of someone who stays, you deserve someone like Brent.
Therefore kindly adhere to Amby's lead. Forgive yourself for doing whatever it took to assure yourself that you survived another day, despite all of the attempts to bring you down. I think you're as lovely as Amby is... simply due to how you turned your setbacks into life lessons, for how you fought even when you found yourself weak, even when it hurt. Being the person who believes in the sunshine even when they can't see it, calls for a particular kind of bravery.
On top of everything in this story happened... Everything will be alright. So, be courteous to yourself. You were learning. You are still.
Lastly, it is acceptable to run away and conceal at times, it is okay to let those relationships lapse, and it is normal to experience feelings while you mend. Be proud of yourself, darling, for taking the bravery to do it. Even if it wasn't done softly, even if it was envisioned to be done gently and tenderly.
You have my admiration since on the darkened, scary, and cold voyage that you still learn to enjoy warmth and to chase the rays of the sunshine.
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