Girly Advice

How to build confidence

Hey Kitty's so this is the next chapter with my....umm.. Powerful series? I don't know what to call it. But basically the next four chapters are about building character ,learning how to deal with the world, and becoming strong powerful girls. Because powerful girls grow up to be powerful women. And personally I look up to powerful women, because they had the guts to do what they want, and stand up for what they believe in. (not to mention that powerful women are normally successful, because they never give up)

So todays chapter is about building confidence. This is actually super easy, like really you can get this down within a few days. Confident women know what they want, and they know how to get it. They believe in themselves and know that they deserve better. Because you always deserve the best and you deserve to be happy. Remember, Powerful women run the world.

1. If you wear makeup, I can not express how much red lipstick can do for you. I don't recommend wearing it if you don't wear makeup already, but if you do go with red lips. Theres just something about a bright red lipstick that just screams Im here, Deal with it. By wearing red lips, you actually boost your confidence. Actually any lip color has been proven in studies to boost confidence in women of all ages who have been in traumatic situations according to The Huffington Post.

2. Start thinking "im awesome" Your brain believes what you tell it. If you say "im ugly" your brains going to believe you, and you wont want to stand out because you'll be scared. Negativity kills your confidence, and your happiness. But don't worry, positive thoughts can reverse this. If you think " I am beautifully and a unique child of earth" you will be much happier and your confidence level will sky rocket. Your brain believes you, so be careful what you tell it.

3. Sit tall and walk tall. Never slouch. No no no. Bad posture is not aloud. Not only is it bad for your back, but its bad for your ego. AAAAND people pick up on this too. Sit as tall as you can. This will make you look and feel important. Think of it like this, would a queen slouch on her thrown? Nope. And you princess, don't slouch on your thrown either. This goes for walking too. Walk as tall as you can, pretend that your walking on a balance beam. Back strait, chest out, arms loose,legs strong. Go princess, greet your fans.

4. Master the face. Playfully eyes, straight mouth, relaxed jaw. Practice it, this is the face of confident queen bees. The way you present yourself can either make or brake your confidence. Look at how the other confident girls look at school. Get thire look down and master it. People pick up on appearance. ANd so do you, if you look like you just woke up, you probably wont feel too great, but if you look awake and alive you'll feel awake and alive.

5. Don't take stuff too seriously. Girl life's short, don't worry about things you don't need to. And im going to be honest here, if you spend all night worrying about a test I can almost gurentee that you wont do too great. But if you spend two hours studying and go to bed early, you'll probably get an A. Stress just ruins lives. Don't worry about too much, because that stress just makes you sad, which can kill your confidence because you looses faith in yourself. Just go and live your life one day at a time kitty, live in the moment.

I hope this can help I have a surprise that I've been working on for a few months now, comment if you want to know about the surprise :)

Stay happy Kitty's =^^= good luck