"I DO" BUT I CAN'T - (31 Day Challenge)

DAY TWENTY-SIX

PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA

Everyday you will add a new principle from the previous chapter.
 
(Make sure you're taking notes)
                                                                     

'How do I find the right man or woman of God. How do I know when someone is the right person?'

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If you read through the last chapters carefully and you allowed the Holy Spirit to lead you through this journey, you would have read through and hopefully understood the theory of 'the right person.'

Remember, there can't be such thing or else your right person can marry someone else and that would mean you will have no hope, so you'll always end up marrying the wrong person.

How can they marry the wrong person? Well, theres one thing God CAN'T do through his divine choice, He has decided to give us this special gift and God cannot take away the gifts that He gives because love does not take what it once gave while you're obligated to use it during that time or season (this life or afterlife). God cannot un-die for our sins, neither can He take away Satan's gift of music or his wisdom and his desires.

Free will. Yes, the will to choose freely. The most beautiful yet destructible gift that's ever been given to us human beings but to the angels in heaven and in hell also. God is love, He can never force you to love Him in any way. So if God cannot force you to love Him, what makes you think, He can save someone just for you to love even when they have the right to reject you because they've rejected God and his will. If they choose to reject you, how will you now have someone to marry? That's not really fair is it?

Yes, the Bible tells us that we're placed in certain areas, in specific families and with certain gifts or desires for a purpose. There's a reason why you're reading this right now, so can by any chance, God place someone for you, ready and pure?

Adam had a helper made just for Him, just the way He liked her, with a unique personality, all to glorify God. Hasn't God got you an Adam or an Eve?

Well I believe God has. However, I also believe that God hasn't in a unique way. That will require deeper revelation so read carefully, ask the Holy Spirit to lead you right now.

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First, God has someone ready for you, He's already planned your life. All you have to do is walk in his revelation everyday. Your life is planned, God's purpose upon your life should overshadow your fear because the Bible says that all his plans are good. Jeremiah 29:11

So what's the problem?

The problem is, you can choose to spit in God's face. You can run away all your life, you can make your own plans, follow your own routes but you may return to God. Your life could be twisted, your marriage could be over, your children could hate you and you could be working as a drug dealer without a way out in debt.

What if you are renewed, you have a new life and your job, desires and confidence are all maximised for the glory of God? What if you meet a woman/man of God who you fall deeply in love with?

If you both marry, will she be the right person? If so, then God is selfish because the only way for you to have met her, would have been through your suffering and indescribable hardships. So if you obeyed God then you would have married the wrong person!