Perspective

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"What is the best thing that has ever happened to you?"

In my eyes

the best things to happen to me

are also the worst things to happen to me

because they are what made me grow.

They are what changed me and made me who I am.

Going to fucking Disneyland doesn't change you as a person.

No.

But you know what does change you?

Terrible things.

Terrible shit changes you.

Think about it sweetheart.

Every single bad thing that you go through will change you as a person

to some capacity.

And every time it happens

there will always

always be a positive aspect to it.

Losing my brother is still one of the most horrible experiences my young mind has ever had to go through.

But

in a very odd way

you can look at things like that in a positive light.

It takes a special kind of mind

and a special kind of heart

to be able to see the good in the bad.

Having someone in your family die will change you as a human.

Makes you appreciate life

and how quickly it can slip through your fingertips.

Makes you not take those around you for granted.

You do not have to look at bad situations as bad things.

Break yourself out of that mindset.

Break yourself out of what is normal and easy.

Because you cannot control all the bad that happens.

But

you can control how you choose to deal with it

and how it will continue to affect your vibrant life on this beautiful planet.

You are in complete control.

You.

It is all up

to you.

-C.D.

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