Why Dont We Imagines||Wattys2018

How he helps you deal with grief||Why Don't We

{Writing this for all the people who came out on my last post and told me they have struggled with loss and grief}

Jonah Marais- When you lost your father, your grief came out in two ways, anger and then depression, struggling to come to terms with the fact that you had lost him. Jonah had been the most amazing soul, he let you yell at him, he let you beat on his chest until you broke into tears, he held you every time you cried and slowly started to help you pick the pieces up after the loss. You know that you wouldn't have made it without Jonah, he saved you when you were so lost and over whelmed with emotions you didn't know how to deal with. He loved you and cared for you through all of the madness and mess you had once become and you could never say thank you enough for that. 

Jack Avery- When you had first found out your grandpa died you were in denial, you refused to believe he was gone, people called you crazy when you called in at three in the morning to talk to his voice mail, when you went for long drives by yourself(all the ones you use to go to with him), when you went out for ice cream and ordered his and watched it melt, everyone called you crazy but Jack, he knew you needed to believe, even if it was just for a week longer. When it hit you that he was really gone, Jack was by your side, he held you while you let out all the emotions you had pretend weren't there, he held you tightly and whispered sweet nothings in your ear as you told him how much you missed him, he told you all the amazing stories your grandpa had once told him, causing you to laugh through the tears. Jack became your rock, your main support and nothing was more needed during your time of grief than Jack.

Daniel Seavey- Depression was how your grief came out. Losing your best friend so young was the hardest thing you had ever had to deal with and Daniel had never felt more broken than he did when he watched you fall apart, you spent days in bed, hardly eating or sleeping and the only time you did any of those things were when Daniel asked you too. Daniel cleared everything off his time table, he laid in bed with you, he took baths with you, he eat when you eat, he held your hand when you two watched tv because he knew that was what you need, you needed him to love you, to be by your side no matter what, and thats what he did. He kissed your forehead, he held you close, he mended the broken and shattered pieces of your heart, he made you okay again.

Corbyn Besson- When your mom died you put up walls, you shut yourself out from everyone, including your boyfriend and your four best friends. You couldn't face the world, you couldn't look and see people be happy and smiling when you had just lost your happiness. But Corbyn saw those walls being put up instantly and he knocked them down, he fought through every barricade you put up because he knew that deep down you needed him, even when you told yourself that you were fine on your own. You gave up on shutting him out when you realized he wouldn't stop, and you hate to admit it but it felt better having him there watching Netflix on the couch than being alone and watching Netflix. He didn't force you to talk about it, knowing that you needed time to process it but when you had come to terms with everything that had happened and you had formed coherent thoughts you'd open up to him, and when the time came he sat next to you and listened to every word you said, being there for you like he had promised in the beginning.

Zach Herron- Zach struggled while you were grieving, he had never seen you anything than bubbly and happy, to see you so broken and upset made his heart ache for you, although he tried his best to comfort you and support you through all five stages of grief that you went through sometimes he said or did the wrong thing, but he always made up for it. In the end Zach had helped you way more than he thought he did, because he stuck around, he took care of you, he loved you when you were at the lowest of low and when you were ready he brought you back up to the bubbly person you once use to be. He knew when to over crowd you and he knew when you needed space, he knew you better than you knew yourself so he always did his best to support you during this time and that was the way he showed you how much he loved you. Sometimes love can cure painful things, and his love for you did just that.

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