Parents

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I don't understand parents

How can you say you love your children unconditionally

When all you try to do is change them?

Is that love?

Is criticizing my clothing choices love?

Is forbidding me from talking to friends that you don't like love?

It's only unconditional if I follow your terms isn't it

So that's love

Maybe that's why we try to change our husbands and wives

Because our whole life we're changed by people who supposedly love us

So we think that's just what love is-- don't accept it, change it

Isn't that brilliant?

So my eighty isn't good enough

That I studied my ass off for

Because you "could have done better"

Sorry that I'm not you

Tell me dad

How I wasn't asked to go to that basketball game

Because I'm a girl-- how could I like sports?

I forgot that that's how life worked

Tell me mom

Why I can't cut my hair short because it's not girly enough

And why when I asked for combat boots you sneered at me

Tell me why I have to look like a rainbow

Because dark clothing makes me "goth"

Tell me dear family,

Why you can criticize everything that is wrong with me

And I simply have to grin and bare it

"You have a perfect life, you can't complain"

Gee, I really do love being picked apart every day

And tell me more

About how every time you ask me what guy I like

And I reply with none you ask if you should be worried

Yes, the gay is catching, run while you can

But at least you love me unconditionally--

As long as I'm girly enough, smart enough, and straight enough for you

Tell me, am I the perfect daughter you wished for?

I'll never understand parents.

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