Letters to No One

#4

To your impatient version:

Hey, how are you?

I bet you're getting tired of waiting- waiting for something you've always wanted from the very beginning. I bet you're crying every night, just to pour your heart out. I know, my dear. I know that the process of waiting, is tiresome, boring and an uncertain period for you. I know, and I'm not a  stranger to it.

But, don't you know that there's a greater reward for those who can wait?

Take for an instance the process of baking a delicious cookie. How was it done? It is baked under the certain amount of time. And it involves the process of waiting. If you make haste on getting the cookie while it still on its process of being cooked, chances are, you'll get a half-baked or even, an uncooked cookie.

There is beauty in the art of waiting. Never make a rush decision to anything. Never based your lifetime decision, to your temporary and ever-changing emotion. Most especially, when it's about you entering into a relationship.

Huwag kang makikinig sa payo ng ibang tao, lalo na kung about ito sa puso mo. Bukod kasi sa hindi naman sila ang mag-e-enter sa relationship, chances are, masasaktan ka lang. Hindi laruan ang puso mo, para ipamigay mo na lang kahit kanino at hayaan mong saktan nila ito nang paulit-ulit.

Huwag kang magpatianod sa mga pressure...And so what kung nam-pre-pressure sila? Hindi sila ang magha-handle sa relationship na magkakaroon ka. Ikaw at si God dapat ang author nu'n. Sa sobrang kama-madali natin na mangyari 'yung mga bagay-bagay sa buhay, hindi natin alam na-aagaw na pala natin Sa Kanya 'yung plan na dapat Siya ang kasama natin na nagfu-fulfill. Tama ka sa pagsasabing, hindi karera ang love. At the end of the day, kailangan mong isipin na, kailangan maging maayos ka muna sa ibang aspect para mas maging maayos 'yung magiging relationship ninyo. Huwag kang magmadali. Huwag.

"When it is sent by God it is with confirmation. But when it isn't sent by God, it comes with hesitation, frustration and confusion."
Be reminded.

I love you. And I want you to be reminded that you are all deserving of a well-baked lovestory. Not a half-baked one. May God give you a man whose after HIS heart, not just a man who knows Him.
While you may love, do not love blindly. Love yourself enough, to know when it already enough. Love yourself enough, so when it is time, God will sent you the man or even the things you've prayed for.

"When the time is right, I, the Lord will make it happen." Isaiah 60:22

Sending my warm hugs,

@cloakedlove