Relationships (Online/In person)

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Oh boy, we're getting to this topic. If you want to know what my thoughts are on this then, something that I recommend when it comes to being in an relationship is to not have it long distance/Online.

That's a bit strange considering I'm in an online relationship, right? I know that. But the only difference is that I'm willing to be in mine even if some things are unfair. I'm not saying that I want to break up with my boyfriend or anything, I'm just saying that I wish we were close so I could have him around and do the things that I want to do with him. I love him too much to let him go and as much as I'm impatient for us to meet, I'll keep waiting for him.

But with in person relationships, I think that it's easier and not so hard. You get to actually do things and stay close to each other and can even see what your partner is doing or not, it's way harder for the little cheaters out there to get away with things too.

I'm not saying that people in online relationships cheat either, there's a certain thing called trust that you need in a relationship. I know that my lover trusts me, after knowing who I was back then and what I've done..and I trust them too though. I don't know if they're reading this but I do plan on allowing them in my account.

It's probably suspicious how I'm writing this probably and didn't allow my partner on my account before, I know. But I've actually kind of been thinking about that decision for a while. A person can share their account with their partner if they want to or not, I just found it a little weird with me since you know..you never know what could really happen, and since we have dickheads out there in this world

Some that probably even really want to fuck things up for you, once you break up your ex might decide to go into your account and act like a douche. I'm not saying that my boyfriend would do that, it's just something that I've imagined. That's a reason why I don't do the whole "sharing account" thing and have never done it before. The only person that I've done it with was my ex girlfriend for a bit.

But like I've said, there's a thing called trust in relationships. I trust my lover enough too which is why I've made up my mind to do it and make that decision.

It isn't just that though,  I got nervous if there was my past stuff or I feel like I've done something wrong because of how I was when I really haven't. It's stupid, but I was just nervous.

Other than that, In person relationships you at least don't have to roleplay or anything. Not to mention that it's way easier to be in if you have a strict mom that isn't really fond about having online friends..in my case at least..

You get to actually feel your lover cuddling with you, the feeling of their lips against yours, and you get to show them how much you love them instead of typing it in through a screen and trying to prove it in words when you wish that you could show it.

There's something everyone has, a life. (Don't you dare make an edgy joke saying that you don't. Everyone has a life so shut up.) You can't be on a screen 24/7 if you're in an online relationship. We all have things that we have to do in life like work/school, and even have to do things in life to reach up to our goals, some of it being stuff that we don't want to do but need to in order to get by.

People even have stuff going on in their lives, so it's kind of difficult since the two of you aren't near each other and can't talk much if you're busy a lot and don't go online too much.

Sigh If you're in an online relationship at a young age like high school for example, you gotta think through it too since you think about things like prom..I discussed that with my boyfriend even though I'm probably going to be in online school so I don't really get to know what prom feels like or anything and I wouldn't want to go unless my boyfriend was with me too..

It's not just prom though, you need to think through your years of high school and stuff. Sometimes it makes you nervous too probably because you never know what could happen, hell the relationship might end and then it's just all of that waiting for nothing.

Just know that even if things like that would be wasted to remember probably, you can always create new memories. It would suck donkey balls, but you could create new memorable moments for yourself if that were to happen.

I love my boyfriend too much though for these types of things, and even if it doesn't really relate with high school since I'm in online school..I am and would be willing to give up those kinds of things just to see and wait for him.

Some of you reading this might call me stupid, but I know that it would be worth the wait even if I don't have all the time to go on a screen and type and got things going on in life.

I think that it's better off to just stay in a relationship that's in person though, but if you love the person enough to stay and everything (like me-) then it's up to you to make that choice.

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