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making it official i guess..

so I'm definitely going to try out the name Simon, in addition to Corey. Just as like an extra nickname or whatever, idk. Just wanting to try something different, y'know?

And, I've been having more days lately that I've leaned towards they/them pronouns, and I'm thinking I'm genderflux? Like, I always feel like a guy but sometimes not as intensely as others. Ergo, I'm genderflux. I've thought about it for a while but just never really thought too much about it, y'know? Like, it was a thing. I didn't really acknowledge it often, think of it often. It was just. There. But now I'm like, who cares? Just be genderflux. And I mean, idk how you personally feel about it, if you think it's not valid or whatever. If not, that's fine, that's your business. But I'm just telling my truth here, y'know? But I'm thinking I should start saying what name/pronouns I'm feeling each day? Idk. Maybe that's too much trouble for everybody. 

Changing pronouns is trouble, period. But I'm just using he/him today. Some days I mainly want they/them, or he/they. Just depends. Most days are he/him for me, but some days I'd like they/them too, y'know? 

And genderflux isn't talked about as much as genderfluid, but they're similar concepts. Genderflux is when you have a set gender identity (such as being a guy, like I am) but feel it at different intensities at different times. Sometimes you might feel more in-between guy and non-binary, some days you might feel extremely masculine or extremely androgynous. 

But yeah. So, this is a thing now. I'm really vibing with the name Simon. But I still want to go by Corey, too! So..use whichever, I don't really care. I'm just trying to get a feel for Simon right now, see how I like it. 

Thanks for your time.