AITA (Fanfic writes)

AITA for exposing my daughter's relationship to her girlfriend's parents?

(Renee x daughter)

I, 38 female, have twin daughters Bella and Catherine, 18 females.

Catherine has lived with her father, Charlie 42 male, and her stepmother, Cora 40 female, full time since she was 9 years old. While Bella lives with me full time.

When she was 12, she started coming out as lesbian. I begged Charlie to get her the help that she desperately needed because she was clearly showing signs of a mental illness. He and Catherine started going low contact with me, and I obviously took them to court because they weren't taking Catherine's disease seriously. The judge ruled in Charlie's favor and at 14 Catherine went no contact with me as Bella did with both her and Charlie.

When Bella was 17 she moved in with Charlie, to give time with my new husband Phil, 28 male. Bella has been giving me updates about Catherine and informed me that she was dating a girl named Angela.

Fast forward to now, Bella recently got married to her boyfriend, Edward, just before the girls 19th birthday. I was obviously so proud of her, but at the wedding I met Angela. I was disgusted as I watched them hold hands, dance together, and even kiss each other.

The final straw was when I overheard them talking about their future together including their own wedding.

I stayed in town for an extra week and attempted to find Angela's parents. When I did I immediately spoke to them about Catherine and Angela's relationship. They thankfully took me seriously and when I left they agreed to handle the situation with their daughter. I received a call from Catherine a day later and she screamed at me for outing Angela to her parents. They had apparently kicked her out when she refused to go to a camp or therapy.

She was now staying with Catherine at Charlie's so it wasn't like she was homeless or anything, but it was apparently a big deal because they were forbidding Angela from seeing her little brothers whom she's very close to.

I told Catherine that it was her own fault for this happening. Because if she had heeded my warnings before then her disgusting disease wouldn't have spread to Angela and caused her to lose her family.

She called me a homophobic asshole and hung up. I shrugged it off and knew that it was just the first step for Catherine to realize that she needed help. So I waited for her to call me back and beg me for forgiveness.

Well apparently word has spread and Bella was now calling me and demanding that I fix this problem because Edward and his family really liked both Catherine and Angela and approved of their relationship. I was disgusted and told Bella to divorce him, Bella refused and said that if I didn't fix this she would go no contact with me.

I don't believe that I'm wrong for trying to help my child see the light, but what do you think?