My Diary

Questions I haven't answered

Background & roots — "Where did you grow up, and what part of that shaped you the most?"

I was actually adopted from Kazakhstan at age 3, took many speech classes when I come to America. Learning English 

Daily life — "What does a normal day look like for you?"

Fostering dogs, golf Thursdays

Passions — "What's something you could talk about for hours without getting bored?"

Elizabeth Olsen 

Values — "What's one value you refuse to compromise on?"

Umm not sure I understand that 

Comfort zone — "Are you more introverted or extroverted when you first meet someone?"

Definitely extrovert

Goals — "What's something you're working toward right now?"

Going to College for Early Childhood 

Relationships — "What makes you feel genuinely understood by someone?"

Their hardships

Humor — "What kind of humor gets you every time?"

Dark, childish Pinterest ones, memes 

Stress — "How do you usually handle stress or frustration?"

Just walk away 

Trust — "What helps you trust someone quickly?"

Them being real with me and feel like they're telling truth 

In what ways do you protect yourself online today compared to when you were younger?

Not telling where in New York I'm in, sometimes tell my first name, 

What responsibilities do you handle now that prove you're capable—but no one acknowledges?

Have you ever thought, "If they actually paid attention, they'd see I'm not that kid anymore"?

Yes almost everyday 

What was the hardest lesson you learned from those years that changed how you act now?

What choice have you made repeatedly that shows maturity, even when no one notices?

If someone neutral looked at your life now, what evidence would they point to and say, "She's grown"?

Does it feel like the goalposts for "proving yourself" keep moving?

What recognition are you craving most: trust, freedom, appreciation, or apology?

When your messages were read, did it feel more like protection—or exposure?

Do you remember the first moment you realized your privacy wasn't yours anymore?

How did that experience change the way you share things now?

Do you still censor yourself, even when you technically don't have to?

Did anyone ever ask how it felt for you—or was it only about consequences?