CHANCES and REGRETS

TEN important lessons in love

("the best relationship is when you two can act lovers and bestfriends.. It's when you have more playful moments than serious moments.. It's when you can joke around, have unexpected hugs and random kisses.. it's when you two give each other that specific stare and just smile.. It's when you'll stay up all night just to settle your arguments and problems.. It's when you can completely act yourself and they can still love you for who you are.")

to have a best relationship..

I have here my TEN important lessons in love...

1. TRUE LOVE

-true love only comes to those who think the way that they are already matured.... i really don't believe sa maagang relasyon.. i mean is childhood sweetheart, teenagers relationship, sort of that... LOVE really has its own definition but a lot of explanations.. hindi ibig sabihin mahal mo ngayon at mahal ka ngayon.. sigurado ka pa rin bukas.. just make the best of it everytime!

2. LOVE IS ALWAYS BEEN A TWO WAY PROCESS

-Mahal mo... dapat Mahal ka din

Naiintindihan mo siya pero dapat mas NAGKAKAINTINDIHAN kayo! importante yun..

Huwag ipagpilitan ang mga bagay na hindi nakukuha sa sapilitan..

Promise hindi magwowork!

3. DON't BE TOO MUCH ATTACHED

-kung minsan mahihirapan ka ng huminga, hindi mo na naeenjoy ang ibang mga bagay sa mundo.. mas madali ka masaktan..minsan nakakalimutan mo na ang sarili mo..

-Too much attachment might hurt you in the end.. balanse lang!

4. BE OPEN-MINDED

-ang term na "NASAKTAN" o "SINAKTAN KA" ay hindi dapat magdulot ng kahit anong sama ng loob na dadalahin mo lang habang buhay..Promise hindi ka magiging masaya! Nangyayari ang lahat ng bagay na may dahilan.. Nagkamali ka.. o nagkamali man siya mas madali parin ang magpatawad kesa ang makalimot ng sama ng loob..Just make sure iwasan natin ang magtanga tangahan..

-at ang importante sa lahat.. alam mo dapat kung kailan kailangan ang PRIDE at kung kailan hindi.. kapag mahal mo ang isang tao..ang magpakapride is not an option!

-kapag nagaaway kayo dapat may marunong mag give way.. hayaan ang bawat isa na makapagpaliwanag bago ang duda!

5. BE OUTSPOKEN. BE YOURSELF

-whatever you have in mind, kung ano man ang nararamdaman mo towards your relationship.. be transparent! Tell him/her your feelings and perspective..

kapag galit ka.. sabihin mo

kapag masaya ka.. sabihin mo..

kapag may pagdududa.. confirm it bago manumbat at mang away!

at kapag hindi ka na masaya.. let him/her know it..

6.BE WISE ENOUGH TO CHOOSE THE RIGHT ONE

-Hindi ibig sabihin mahal mo, karapat dapat na kayo para sa isa't isa..

-Hindi ibig sabihin napapasaya ka niya, hindi ka na niya kayang saktan sa huli..

-HAPPINESS cannot always guarantee the love you are hoping.. but sometimes and most of the time the happiness you are expecting is the one that leads you to unexpected state of pain.. balance lang!

-Before ka magpaka attach siguraduhin mo muna na wala siyang unfinished business dahil lahat ng unfinished business ay palaging magiging anino ng isang relasyon..

7.IWASAN ang REGRETS

-When you decide to love a person, love him/her with no condition and love your decision..

-wag ka na lang palagi makukuntento sa mga what if's.....

8. IWASAN ang mag-assume!

-huwag pangungunahan ang sitwasyon..lalong lalo na ang nararamdaman ng ibang tao..

baka sa huli mapahiya ka lang at masaktan..

9. HUWAG MANAKIT NG DAMDAMIN NG IBA

-Dun ka talaga magiging masaya!

10. LOVE YOURSELF

-love yourself first before anything else..Don't get blinded by LOVE itself..know your limits.. alam mo kung anong tama.. at alam mo kung ano ang dapat! palagi mo tatandaan nagmamahal ka para maging masaya.. kapag nagmamahal ka at nasasaktan ka lang.. mag-isip ka! :D

sana nakatulong!

LOVE! LOVE! LOVE!

@penwielder_19