Talking Spit

Virginity

Y'all been giving me suggestions and all that jazz, but this topic came to mind. I just wanna know if I'm right or not.

I remember back in the G with my old bff, we would always talk about virginity. I mean babygirl was a thot and me being the good friend I am, I tried to warn her. Ha ass ain't listen and look at where she at now. But thats besides the point.

One time me and her was having a full fledged debate about the TRUE definition of virginity. She be doing her lil sucky fucky thang, so her idea was different than my clean and lean version.

Right now, Im bouta provide yall with the puberty book/dictionary definition of sex, which leads to the whole virginity ordeal.

Sex-any act that involves pleasuring someone's genital area (penis,vulva,vagina,anus), NO MATTER what you use to do the pleasuring (mouth,hand,vagina,penis,object).

At this time, she had just given a lil BJ but yet was steady trying to argue with me that was still a virgin. She was like,"But Kimi, I never had a *sausage* in my *cooty cat* so I am still a virgin."

I said,"Lil girl, a virgin is someone who hasn't had ANY type of sexual act. It's way more than a sausage meets cooty cat thing." And I know a lot of girls who claim they are virgins, but be getting/giving brain. I don't judge or slut shame, but babygirl, you aint gotta lie to me. And I saw all of y'all claimed yall was virgins so now I gotta sip my tea on y'all. ☕

So, if I haven't made it clear, the question of this chapter is

Technically, who was right? What does the word virginity TRULY mean to you?

Btw, some of y'all might have a smart mouth, so Imma clarify that I am a virgin. A REAL ONE AT THAT lol. I haven't even had my first kiss yet, so tf I look like getting funky with a nigga? Thats backwards as hell. But yall know the drill, leave some suggestionssssss.