Flirting!

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Tips for flirting with guys (Most found on the YouTube channel, Ask Kimberly):
*plz note that not all guys are the same (surprise, surprise) so I cannot guarantee 100% that alp of these will work! This are just some helpful ideas that may be able to make flirting easier!

1.) Be confident, show off a little!
You don't necessarily have to be cocky or arrogant, but don't make it seem like you have little to no self worth.

2.) Wear dangly earrings!
Wear earrings that draw attention to your neck! Apparently guys think necks are sexy??? (WTFreak?!)

3.) Play around with your hair
If your hair is long enough, play around with it while you're talking to your crush! This is one of the most common flirting techniques. Also, studies have shown that guys are most attracted to a girl whose hair is down, long, and pulled over one shoulder. (Huh, who knew?!)

4.) Bend and Snap
If you happen to drop something, don't hastily pick it up, or else you might seem a little nervous (which of course is perfectly normal, but we all try to hide it). Instead, take your time, maximize your bending, elongate your movements, give the boys the time to take in the other parts of your body. Then, as you're coming back up, snap your up (think perky?) And flip your hair a little bit.

5.) Act interested
Instead of telling stories all about ourselves, ask your crush some things about himself, something that you know he'll be interested in. It's a for sure way of keeping conversation going, because if it's something that they really enjoy, then they can keep going on about it. Even if its isn't something totally interesting to you, it helps to get to know the boy a whole lot better!

6.)Texting
If you aren't in an official relationship, but you happen to be texting each other, don't send texts like, "I'm so bored!" Or, "So what are you doing?". If you aren't in a relationship, then you shouldn't make him feel like he has to keep you occupied (also, doesn't it just scream "desperate" and "obvious"?!). It may make the guy think that you're way too available or clingy, and that's bad! Try to say things that show you're interested, but not trying too hard. (Does that make sense?)

7.)  Maintain eye contact
No, not the creepy/scary death stare, but don't look at the floor the whole time! Let him know that you enjoy talking to him!

8.) Smile and laugh
Even if you aren't talking to your crush, smile and laugh! Get His attention in a good way. Studies have shown that boys find a girl way more attractive and fun if she laughs and smiles frequently.

***Comment your flirtatious techniques! Also let me know if this was helpful or if I need to elaborate more on Any of these! Thanks for reading!

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