tw: Lots of mention of su*cide
I dont encourage suicide, just In advance.
Who remembers when the word "good-bye" meant "see you later". Nowadays, it has become into "I'm going to do it". Like suicide has been just so normalized in modern society that you look at a newspaper headline and are like "oh, another suicide". Or you just throw around "kys" like its nothing.
First off, I'm going to talk about the "suicide Is selfish thing". We were not born into this world because we wanted to. It was basically against our say. We could not choose our skin colour, or hair colour, or gender, our sex, our sexual orientation, where we are from, our health, our intelligence....anything. It was all against our will. People who say suicide is selfish are usually the selfish ones. They are only thinking about themselves. Even though they might persuade they are really caring for them, deep down its themselves. If they really cared, try to HELP THE PERSON. Don't put the person in a worse spot than they already were.
"but what about their family and friends? They will get hurt too". Yes they will get hurt. Lots of people will. I know that. But in the end, you are really all you have and you are really all you need to take care of. Suicide is never the answer though.
Suicide is an option. Obviously it is because it is THERE. But it is not a correct option. It is not an option you should take. Never.
And to add this in, if you ARE feeling suicidal, think of all the hard times you had in the past. All the shortcomings. All the times you thought everything was hopeless. You probably thought you wouldn't get through the situation(s) you were in, but you perhaps did and lived up till this point in your life. Don't give up. Nothing lasts forever. Sadness does not last forever. Neither does happiness.
You cannot change someone's mind. Only they can change their own mind. This is literally the number one thing to keep in mind for suicide prevention. Don't try to change the persons mind. Try to work with them to help themselves change their own mind.
And here is one thing that is the original reason why I wrote this rant.........
Faking to be suicidal seriously damages people that are actually suicidal. There are sooooooo many people that are actually in need for help and counselling and stuff but they are lost In the mob of fakes who wastes everyones time. Like I really dislike those certain group of people who are like "if you don't buy me this, I ill k*ll myself" or "if you don't do my homework for me, I will k*ll myself". Like I genuinely understand if you have some sort of problem or something going on in your life that may seem too much to handle, but it is honestly that CERTAIN group of people that really cheese me. There are people out there who literally go through hell and back everyday and still try to put a smile on their face everyday while there are attention seekers who over use every little problem to try to attract attention to them.
Again, I seriously understand if you are dealing with something really hard in your life, but it is those fakers and attention seekers that really makes me mad.
If you ARE suicidal, again, I know it's hard, but please get professional help or at least some sort of help. You deserve to be happy :)
