How to be a horrible person - A beginners guide to life

Relationships

Communities are made of relationships. For the most peaceful living, a homogenous, similar assembly is needed. Differences are bad. Do not allow differences. Thankfully it is quite easy to disallow them by being oblivious. However, validating your truths and beliefs is the foundation of any good relationship.

Relationships are the most important place to find your center. Your center is everywhere at all times. Do not allow yourself to get comfortable in one space, the moment someone else enters the room you need to be able to change your personality completely. Not even the tiniest detail of the person you are can be constant.

Through relationships, you will learn many important skills and you will grow as a person. You will become more and more skilled at making other people do what you want them to and you will grow in importance as your influence grows.

Empathy plays a vital role in relationships. If you are good at mentalizing other people's feelings, that is great. True empathy is something that you should get acquainted with too so that you can fake it as efficiently as possible. The key is to be aware of how other people might react. You must then react to every possible reaction in a way that will benefit your goals in the long- or short-term.

Categorize relationships into long- and short-term relationships.

If a subject is not agreeing to gratify you as you want it within the first 3 months of your relationship, you need to stop investing. This person is too high-effort.

Make sure to make it a habit to shame people for not gratifying your needs or wants. It really adds value to your life and being.

On the other hand, never knowing what you want from a relationship will add excitement.

Successful relationships can be recognized easily because of their circular patterns. Every second that you spent silently sitting next to your friend, thinking about why they are wrong and you are right, is a build-up that leads to emotional exchange. After relieving yourself of all anger, this is then followed by a better understanding of why such exchanges are a horrible idea. Your understanding of the other person will grow best with silence and screaming. Restraint is healthy but so is anger. Angry people are always confident, and always right. Unless they disagree with you, respectively.