Nowadays almost every one is acting fake not because they want to but because they have to, apparently.
Many people today do the things they do in order to impress someone, be it their parents, their peers, their partners, workmates and so on. This makes them forget themselves therein losing themselves in the process! How?
Some of us work so hard to impress or please others and end up not caring about ourselves or how we feel about the whole thing. One reaches a point where they only want to be praised and acknowledged; don't get me wrong when I say that because come on, everyone deserves to be praised and all but for some it's excess.
You feel like if someone does not like something about you then you should change it. This is unfair to you and your mental health, you have to know that. It will keep you worried and stressed out trying to find a way to please the person. In the process, you might lose your real self or hurt yourself through anxiety since you are not sure what will make the other people happy about you or accept you. Such people are not real friends or companions because they do not like you for who you are.
"Why fit in when you were born to stand out?" Quote by Dr Seuss. If you can't ignore what bad others think of you, then look at it this way. You're just unique so you prefer to stand out rather than for in with the rest. Difference is okay.
Therefore, we have to learn to be comfortable in our skin. If someone doesn't like what you are doing but you like it, you know it is good or it makes you comfortable then why let them dictate for you what to do?
To wrap this up, I want you to love yourself and express yourself as much as you want because there is no one better at it than you yourself.
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