"Don't live in the past, thinking about mistakes or changes you made. Think of your life as a book, move forward, close one chapter and open another. Learn from your mistakes, but focus on your future, not on your past."
-Anonymous.
All of us are crazy in very particular ways. We're distinctively neurotic, unbalanced, and immature, but don't know quite the details because no one ever encourages us too hard to find them out. An urgent, primary task of any lover is therefore to get a handle on the specific ways in which they are mad. They have to get up to speed on their individual neuroses. They have to grasp where these have come from, what they make them do – and most importantly, what sort of people either provoke or assuage them. A good partnership is not so much one between two healthy people (there aren't many of these on the planet), it's one between two demented people who have had the skill or luck to find a non-threatening conscious accommodation between their relative insanities.
-scripts from On Marrying the Wrong Person — 9 Reasons We Will Regret Getting Married (theschooloflife.com)
Miakaeleen Sabrielle P. Seigfreid
