Wanderer Of The Moonlit Night

Stop running away

5 December 2022
2:20 pm

Sometimes ppl need to accept what they do. If its good or bad. There's no crime in accepting that u hurt someone and u should not have done something. Its a proof that you are sane and understand whats happening when u accept, it doesnt make u a bad person. And the ppl who really care for u will forgive you too if u equally make sure to correct urself and make efforts to make sure ur relation with someone is genuine.

The biggest mistake ppl do is running away from their wrong acts ;-;

I just said they're triggering me, to warn em from saying something which hurts, as i care about their relation with me and don't want it be toxic but they be like "I'll just go away/stay away from me" like bro, I'm being honest for our better and here u literally wanna break friendship coz u can't take a single criticism!?

Like they don't even wanna accept their guilt, not even apologise and then act like "I HATE MYSELF I'LL GO AWAY" instead of making changes to their mindset. It's kinda selfish to just simply tell ppl to stop being with u if u hurt em. It hurts even more now. first learn to understand what you're doing and what they need from you. You're not born to be a stoopid person. You can stop hurting, running away and triggering ppl "ONLY AND ONLY WHEN YOU REALLY TRY IT RIGHT and see other's Pov how they r affected by u"

I cringe it when ppl say "You're special that's why you don't hurt me or others"
I m like wtf? That's nothing special. Anyone can do it if they really genuinely care about other's feelings and needs! IT'S ALL ABOUT HOW U OBSERVE, CONTROL UR MOUTH AND ACT. Think twice before hurting ppl. Staying away after someones hurt simply means you're running away after breaking someone's heart. U gotta mend it back too, Be it a flower vase or someone's heart. ppl be like they can just run off and next day act like they're the most caring ass... toxic!

You can really be a better person and help many ppl just by seeing and understanding their pov and trying not to be selfish or egoistic when they are hurt by you. Ppl don't hate u for being hurt. They just want u to realise something so that u can be a better person by correcting yourself with time. You can't just break off relations and friendships just coz someone told you they're hurt by you? It's like you hurt ppl and then leave em alone to suffer so that u don't have to bear the burden of trying to make efforts.

And pls stop overthinking things like ppl don't like u that's why they complain. If ppl really disliked u they would have literally ghosted u instead of complaining for helping u change something wrong. Better get it in ur mind, kids! Be the better of yourself for your loved ones, when you really care it doesn't take much of an effort to really avoid hurting them. Be genuine and make sure you're not making someone cry, tell directly what's in your head but avoid overthinking and distancing out of it :)