Wanderer Of The Moonlit Night

Do not ignore a needy one

“ We cry infront of someone, not because we're desperate for attention, but because we trust and feel secure to express our feelings around that person, we want to let em know how much we like or love them, we want them to know this and not to blame us to be fake, weak or oversensitive "

When we tell our burden, sorrowful secrets and about our life to someone, it's because we trust them and sometimes we do need a bit of comforting when we're in a lot of pain or problems. We don't do this to take sympathy but we feel better around them. When we really love someone, we don't feel insecure around them. We cry, we laugh, we say anything we want and we express our emotions in different forms. It's never wrong to cry, it's not a sign of weakness. It's a sign we  have our soul still surviving within this messed up apocalyptic world. It's a sign of noble heart!

I've seen a post of someone idr, but she was saying how much disappointed she was with people here. Because they were ignoring her so inhumanly. I really understand what she meant and it's true. Like there are some stupid ppl who are so self obsessed that they've no time for others or helping their loved ones. They're too much indulged in their own fun, scores, and what not that they literally forget their own bonds. Such people need to understand when one day they'll be at their place, they'll regret what they did to others.

Personally, i used to share my feelings in WhatsApp statuses especially before i came to Wattpad, and it's so sad that no one used to ever reply anything to me whether it's a shayeri or a quote or some thoughts and rants, everyone even those so called friends used to ignore. A few times I've been suicidal too and posted, but everyone skipped it after seeing- it's so weird how everyone's become so inhuman nowadays, they don't have humanity left ;-; they think it's cool to be selfish and not care about others in need.

I think earlier people were much happier mentally without much mental issues, because feelings and bonds were more stronger and genuine! Nowadays what happens is that everyone's preaching Self Love in the wrong way. They either do it by judging someone's feeling or else turn Self love = Selfishness. As what most teens think it is. To put yourself to first priority everytime instead of certain times.

Actual self love means to understand yourself and accept yourself the way you're, prioritising during certain circumstances and making your voice be heard and clear, instead of becoming so selfish that u stop caring about others and ignore the needy people. When you really love yourself, you're actually becoming kind, more loving and more caring cos now you understand the pain of others and yourself better, you're becoming an empath, a better mindset about everything around and about yourself.
It is not what most teens think "We love our self so we don't have time to think of caring about animals and plants, awareness, important issues and our family. Life is all about enjoying fullest we don't wanna waste time for helping others"

Which has the result: Someone left wattpad and their best friend permanently coz they've an exam 2 years later, Someone broke up from their relationship just coz the person wants to enjoy multiple lustful relationships, Someone accused and hurted another person for no reason coz they think they're saving themselves in advance in case the other person might hurt in future, Someone throwing their own anger on an innocent person for no reason, Someone starting a war to conquer more resources at cost of innocent lives and environmental destruction but who cares, Someone being a corrupt one bribing to get everything done, taking away someone else's deserving position, Someone suddenly abandons their friends for they're living a "student life" and have no time for friendships.

When they could still come here, it honestly doesn't takes much time to come for ur friends even daily or at least once in a few days ;-; not like they all are studying 24/7 constantly without any free time XD and even studying too much is worse than not studying seeing how much one gets stressed and in depression if they close all their contacts just for sake of being a topper. Istg this new culture of parenting and studentship compitition "You need to score 100%, You need to be a big Engineer, You need to be a Rich "
has really ruined relations, quality of life and joy, humanity, feelings, bonds, everything!! People are running after so much of toxic greed for scores, fame and money that they're forgetting the genuine things, leaving away people who were there for em once, and this had happened with me too! Lots of people i trusted here or elsewhere simply one day suddenly forgot me and stopped talking to me coz they needed to focus on studies so much they had no single moment to reply if i sent em i feel suicidal, they be like "I'll reply you later, I'm busy" reply never came tho!!