Learning to cook

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The idea of learning to cook was not a good idea for me because I was afraid of getting burned or cut by my own hand that being said by accident, but it was even worse was learning how to cook and my father decided to use attack therapy if you are used to knowing what therapy is, it's where you end up being yelled at and that kind of short he was doing that more often or not when I was trying to learn how to cook something. I really didn't wanna learn how to cook..... a chicken dinner!
The idea of cooking was fright pending because I was afraid of burning my hand off and the idea accidentally cutting my fingers of! That being said I did not want to learn to cook as it was not fun!  To tell you the true as a kid I was hoping to read my science books and watching tv!   That being said cooking was not a priority for me!  Still isn't!   As far as I was concerned I was dotting and not wanting to learn the f*cking cooking! 
And as teacher, my father was the worst! He was a drill sergeant and an asshole at the time!    Let's say that my father was a special human being in other words , aggrativing!  I could not stand learning under him, the art of or should I said the fart of cooking!    I had to get the hell away from him!
And then that was when I decided to take the round trip to who I thought was my real friend, Karen!  But only To be bugged while being able to walk that being said, the idea of  that being said!  I when I returned 4 hours later! My father was looking upset both with me but most of all with him self!  For along time I did not learn to cook.....nor  did I care about it to much!  Soon I went book to my books, tv, movies and anything that did not involve the er room!  That was what's the last time I learned how to cook!

But I still like learning different things, just not cooking as it is a pain in the ass!  For me if you kind and caring then I will be able to learn!  For one thing that he was patient when teaching my the night sky, and reading!  That stuck with me! I also had a tae kwon do teacher who was very patient and kind.....that knowledge stuck with me!   The same with my high school Mather teacher!  That being that one did not being not able to stick as with me! That being said, teaching someone especially some of age 18- well you need to be kind and patient!  The same with disciplining the said person! If want some some to have a love of learning and to be an arrow!  But the idea of a drill sergeant and using attack therapy will not be able to work!  The idea of attack therapy is really the idea of just that idea of attacking someone! 
Let's say the kindness and patience will help with the idea of learning well teach the other person to trust the person when it comes to ask in for help! Things would be not be different because I hate cooking  but that being said! 
I remember when I  was little my father was patient with me learning but that was because I wanted to be  to learn about the topic......but cooking it is too dangerous and boring for me!  I could not deal with it then and now!  

-T.M.

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