Huo Junxian didn't believe the psychologist's words. She understood the theories better than the psychologist, and if she took the qualification exam, she could score even higher.
However, she still went. Snow continued to fall incessantly, creating a thick layer of ice and snow on the ground, making every step difficult.
The psychologist lived in the same community, coming from a wealthy family with a business to inherit.
Huo Junxian brought a gift and went to the psychologist, named Ning Xianzhi. Ning Xianzhi set the temperature high, allowing Huo Junxian to relax before starting the conversation.
"I don't agree with creating ambiguity with someone else and making her jealous. If you overdo it, she will get angry. In the past, she was angry with You Wanyue, making it difficult for her to reconcile. She felt replaceable." Huo Junxian asked softly, "Isn't there any other way?"
If a person has been away for a long time, issues that were previously incomprehensible can now be felt over time.
The fundamental issue between them is that Gu Siyu wants freedom, and she is unwilling to give it. Seeking a psychologist is not about finding ways to give Gu Siyu freedom but rather finding a way to make her stay.
"That's too simplistic," the psychologist said. "Only children do such things."
"Then what should I do?" Huo Junxian slightly relaxed. If the psychologist suggested such an approach, she would question the professionalism and dismiss her without hesitation.
"Firstly, the problem is that she's afraid of you. She feels she can't change you and wants to escape from you. If, after leaving you, she continues to make efforts, it means she is changing herself, wanting to find the right opportunity to come back to you. So, what you need to do is let her see that you are also making efforts. In a relationship, everyone plays the role of a teacher, constantly observing each other. You have to express what you are doing so she can feel your kindness and gentleness, making her want to come back to you at all costs."
"Let's put it simply. If you still exude possessiveness, she will feel you are making no progress, and approaching you will be cautious." The psychologist shared many insights, some of which Huo Junxian had not noticed because their closeness did not provide space for relaxation.
"Continue," Huo Junxian crossed her legs, and the psychologist poured her a cup of tea. As Huo Junxian held the warm tea and took a few sips, her body gradually warmed. The psychologist leaned against her chair and continued slowly, "To make her jealous, deliberately playing ambiguous is low-level, but effective. Sometimes, being surrounded by potential rivals can stimulate her possessiveness. People are often inspired when they feel invaded."
Huo Junxian was a perfect example. Whenever Gu Siyu was close to someone else, her possessiveness would rise. Huo Junxian quickly understood the psychologist's meaning.
"Make it a bit more intense, even if you're in different places, she can see your efforts. However, the distance must be controlled—neither too close nor too far."
Huo Junxian remained silent, sipping her tea. She asked, "Is this your psychological healing method?"
"It can only be considered the first step. I believe if you and she resolve your feelings, many other problems will be resolved as well."
Huo Junxian pondered, and Ning Xianzhi continued, "If you can't change internally, why not pretend on the surface? At least let her see your changes and give her a reason to come back to you."
Pretending is a challenging task.
If the exterior is as domineering as the interior, making people fearful, there won't be any reason for her to stay.
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