"Haters" are more prevalent today than ever before. With the impact of social media making it so easy to put someone down while remaining "faceless," it's no wonder most of us are lacking in self confidence. It doesn't matter how you choose to live your life- someone will always judge you. Why humans feel that expressing their jealousy, anger and fears on to other people will make their own lives better remains unexplained. The most important thing to remember when it comes to dealing with judgemental comments is that you are your own harshest critic. Being scared of what others think or how you will be perceived is the core of all issues. If you have no doubt within yourself, then the opinions of other people will not affect you in any way. The truth about criticism is that the negative comments stay in your head while the positive ones (which tend to be the majority) have no effect. It's this focus on the negative that consumes us and overrides all the good in our lives. Life is a road and haters are just a bump. You are the car on the road and to ensure you are not derailed on your journey, you cannot let the bumps overcome you. Also, remind yourself that it's really about them. If someone hates their own life, then of course they will hate yours as well. There is something going on in a hater's life that makes them act the way they do. People do not act out for no reason. Simple. As much as this is hard to accept, you cannot please everyone, so why bother? Some people will love you while others won't ever understand you. At the end of the day, you need to remain true to yourself. You remember the things that influence you the most, so why not let those memories be ones of contentment rather than hurt and anger? Like I always say, the strength is within you.
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