Indecisive mess

Judgement

I heard a rather particular opinion I guess you could say about someone in my school today.  Now this person is not there anymore but I do remember her because I admired her from afar I guess you could say. And even though I've never spoken so much as a syllable to her  what they said still made me mad.
Before I get started with the story there are very important key elements to remember while I'm telling the events as follows
Things to remember:
* the people talking are against feminists. Meaning they talk rude about them.
*once in class we we're having a debate on abortion. One side of the room was people who thought woman have rights to do whatever she wants because it's her body. And the other side thought it was wrong no matter what because it's not the child's fault and also what if the guy wanted the kid?  Doesn't he have a say? 
And the girl in discussion stood up for herself in side woman should pick what she wants and said
"I consider myself a feminist and I don't think it's right that guys should have a say in our own body. "
Which is why I admired her for speaking her mind and not caring what people think.
Note before I start:
* I'm not telling this because I'm one of those
"Ahhh!  Something happened have to blog about it" type of writers but because I want to show people reading this how judgement can affect a lot of things and hopefully give closure to people who have been having things said behind their back.  But if it comes out as just a school girl telling a story to gossip and blame people that is not my intentions at all so sorry in advance. 

I'm not really sure how this discussion started but they started taking about said girl. 
Person one: hey sir... Do you remember that girl that used to be here?  Uhhhh I don't remember her name
Person 2: ohh!  The one that looked like a frog? 
(Laughter and scoffs erupt from both people) 
1: yeah I guess she did look like one! 
2: told you! 
1: anyway she said something about being a feminist that one debate we had!  Remember?  How stupid is that? 
2: oh no way dude really? 
1: yeah she did... She was actually a feminist.  She said so
2: oh dude I don't know
(All laugh while saying it's stupid) 

Now there's a lot of things wrong with this conversation. 
1.) Making fun of someone... Much less someone you don't even know on something that shouldn't matter
2.) Calling feminists stupid when I'm pretty sure they don't even know what that means
3.) Just being mean in general with their tone

Now I'm aware this happens all the time in school especially a public high school.  I'm also aware that maybe they don't actually mean all this stuff and that maybe they're just going through a phase.  Or maybe they're just not educated and it is not their fault. But at the same time I don't think those are any reasons to be mean with someone. Especially behind their back.
Call me too sensitive but I just feel this isn't right. 
If they saw a frog in this one person then how do they see others?  Now this may come out as selfish but... How do they see me? 
As an owl?  Elephant?  Potato? Or hey maybe if im lucky they don't see me at all.
I understand that people have their own opinions and such when it cones to things but it just frustrates me when they're mean about it. 
And if you know someone who has been talking about you behind your back or people you know that have gone through this problem.  I know it's easier said than done but please don't listen to them. I may not know you but you're so much more than what they're saying. So don't let it bring you down. Especially if they don't know you.

Let me know what you think in the comments!  I would love to know
I also hope this helped a little bit? 

BTW there is a new poem coming soon as I said before please check it out when it comes out I would really appreciate it. 

Well I hope you enjoyed this somehow?  And I hope it made sense.

Until next time BYE