Imagine Whumper kidnaps and tortures a whumpee who was a teacher for young children with extreme behaviors who worked extensively in correcting manners.
Whumper: *whipping Whumpee with a belt* *says something horrible to Whumpee*
Whumpee: I don't like the way you are treating me. You are showing a lot of disrespect to me and my body and I need you to stop. Thank you. *does not shed a single tear because they have worked with children*
Whumper: bu- wh- no! No!! Cry dammit!!!
Whumpee: Temper tantrums do not solve anything, you need to use your words to show me what's wrong, but it's ok to feel upset too.
Whumper: ....