my thoughts at 12 a.m.

4/30/17

Love is the best feeling in the world. Its amazing, how one can fall in love with the simplest of things. At first theres a sense of butterflies in the stomach and the feeling is strange, but after that comes joy. I would say pure bliss, it seems as if nothing can make these feelings go away. The truth is we fall in love constantly, with material things, moments, memories, hobbies, people, etc.

Love is good, its pure and beautiful, but it can become a toxic thing when it comes to loving someone. We are made to give chances, and to over look the flaws that make up a person so that we can focus on the better qualities. Thats what love is when talking about a person, to make it work the flaws need to be accepted, and the problems that come need to be solved not by one but by both people. What happens when thats not how it actually goes? 

Everything can be fine the first few weeks, months even, but at one point there has to be conflict between the two people, even when love is involved. The problem can come in forms of friends, family, communication, distance, anything really. What matters is what happens in the mist of the problem, who is the one thats trying to fix it, is it both people, or just one. Who is actually fighting for the love thats at stake. Now that doesn't mean that the problem destroys the love shared by the two, what destroys the love is the effort thats actually put into it. 

The thing is love between two people can't happen out of no where and just stay strong forever, that love has to grow each day and get stronger as the months go by. So what happens when theres only one person interested in making this love last? The answer is easy the love and relationship at this point ends up dying, its tragic really because out of the two only one cared enough to fight for that love.