That's my body. that is my waist and that is my thigh.
i have worked so fucking hard to be able to accept that yes, i am on the bigger side and i probably won't be skinny for a long time, but being told im too fat for a teenager is fucking ridiculous. i am a human being and i have feelings and even if you may think i am, don't fucking verbalize it because i have tried so many years to lose weight and it's so god damn hard to do. i eat healthy and watch my weight and work out. but i cannot lose the weight. i cannot and god knows I've tried.
im tired of being constantly judged for being confident with the amount of skin on my body, and titled fat instead of beautiful. we applaud the lady who can keep a healthy body figure but not the lady who is trying her hardest to obtain a healthy weight. we applaud the idea of being confident but shame it when a fat person wants to accept themselves for how they really are.
titling a person fat and accepting them to be okay with it is absolute bullshit.