Life is a mixture

Relationship!!!

Previously ...

 " ....this part will be about three types of relationships that we build, each of them connect to the other no matter how unimportant one of them to the other seem. We should find BALANCE, LOVE, APPRECIATION, and LOGIC between the three. It's rare to find someone who desires the three, since some people can handle one or two of them together only, but it's still POSSIBLE if we knew how and dealt with the three with what it deserves of our care and time. " 

But I only mentioned and discussed two last time: WORSHIP and LOVE relationships ; since the article got too long ( 2000 words), so in this last part of RELATIONSHIP article from "What We Should Fight To Pass", I will mention the third type and other types of relationships. 

5) SELFSHIP 

( Yes, I know this is the second word I created in this article ) 

Anyway...

•SELFSHIP is the bond that forms when you love, appreciate, and look out for yourself. Also it's when you adore and embrace all your flaws and who you are, because no one's perfect, and I understand that even after believing that so many of us aim and desire to be perfect, but we all still won't be perfect no matter how hard we try because whenever you change something negative or when you erase a flaw, something change inside of you so new flaws and negative characters will appear ( just like I described fear before), so instead of pressuring and hating yourself for something you can't and won't be, focus on who you are and accept what you can't change, I don't mean that if you are a lazy, aggressive, bad.... etc person, that you mustn't try to change, in fact you should if you truly want and need to, but if you want to be perfect, then turn around and find another turn (your true goal ) or other desire to fulfill (even if it was to fly) , because this road ( being perfect) doesn't exist, so don't change a flaw that annoys you if that isn't needed but embrace them because whenever you succeed or achieve something hard, its because of you not only the positive side, but the whole you along with your flaws, they are part of who you are ( plus being perfect doesn't lead to true happiness that humans SEEK , so being perfect isn't something you truly deeply desire, it's just a proof that you want to be someone else (perfect)  that isn't human like you are)  . When you truly make yourSELF happy ,lucky , and special no matter what terrible things you have done (after you learn and put on mind not to do them again)  . To rather cheer up and advice yourself after failing or badly messing something up, than shout and get upset on yourself for a long time, because in the end feeling bad or upset will be harmful on your spirit that you will make you feel down and doubt yourself more later which won't lead you to anything and will be pointless if no actions ( to solve or improve) were done after . To be friend with yourself and not to ignore or hate it, because after all yourself is the only one who was, is, and will be there with you all the time, so why blocking the only friend that follow you everywhere and all the time, that will cheer you up whenever you are down, that will share your bad and good moments whenever you are alone, that you will have some fun time with; it's because when you be friend yourSELF, you do what you and yourself truly desire and want right now not what the others want you to do, to be yourself and be happy with your actions and choices, not to be forced to doing it no matter how bad it feels and how it's wrong thing to do that yourSELF can't accept , so the more you have some time with yourSELF, you will discover more about how yourSELF THINK, what youSELF LIKE and DISLIKE, and specially WHO you are, so how will you succeed if you don't know your GOAL and what your SKILLS  are ?! To feel proud and satisfied of who you are, your attempts to try succeeding, and your choices and decisions  that you made by yourSELF and from yourSELF mind, instead of cursing yourself and wishing to be someone else you aren't . To be positive about yourSELF and not to judge yourSELF negatively or harshly because you aren't only NEGATIVE nor only POSITIVE, you are both so why would you judge yourSELF and your actions in the future about what will you do negatively specially that judging yourSELF like that doesn't help you to live in whatever PRESENT you are in, plus the fact that your judgments might not happen, not like judging positively that also might not happen but at least it helps and affects your actions in the PRESENT better . To respect and treat yourSELF well, since most of us are aware  that dealing with someone disrespectfully won't gain you the purpose you need, specially that every human deserves to be respected, so why don't you respect yourSELF that is human too. To never doubt or underestimate yourSELF, ( according to what I think and believe ) everySELF is capable of EVERYTHING, but we don't desire or prefer EVERYTHING so we can't succeed in EVERYTHING but in what we truly DESIRE, so don't tell or try to convince yourSELF that you haven't done what you DESIRE because you can't, it's because you haven't used up all what you are capable of YET. Most importantly: DON'T be embarrassed from yourself and DON'T feel like a disgrace because that leads step by step to hate and shatter that bond between you and yourSELF that you will live with all your life , and  that all relationships STAND on and which they can't be made well WITHOUT. The most times that proof your strong UNBREAKABLE SELFSHIP is when you don't only know what your flaws  ,positives, desires, and goals are, you also know HOW to deal with them, you know HOW to succeed, and HOW to let and not let things affect you, specially when you trust yourSELF that you are CAPABLE to be and do ANYTHING you DESIRE.