MODERATION !!!!

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*LIFESTYLES
It's the habits you do, events that you make them take place and actions your used to do. As I cleared out about the other points, this also should be taken in moderation specially in it's 7 elements which effect the element of SUCCEEDING YOUR AMBITIONS:

- [ ] Health
Many people don't care so much about their health until it gets damaged, which would lead them to agony and less progress ( if all they care about is progressing). Health is very vital , either the health of your body or your soul. Your body is the container of your soul, plus your body is so attached to your body that it's more of a part of than just a tool you use to pursue your true happiness. In other words, if any damage happens to your soul or your body it will stop you from stepping forward on your path to success.
In the other hand, caring so much about your body health, by avoiding to get it worked up, or to endure pain or tiredness, isn't the point here.In addition, caring so much about your soul health, that you would avoid it getting disappointed, worried, concern, sad, or lost that might happen during your path to success. Your soul's( mind and heart) health is really important because without it, there wont be any fuel ( motivation or desires) to move your powerful machine ( healthy body).
Both ways, they won't bring you up to reach your truly desired goals since you will either damage your body and scar your soul ( to ignore and not to deal with the negative emotions and not taking time to heal your wounds), or you won't use them for the purpose of not harming them.
A healthy life is required, so you have to figure out and try your best to find a way to balance by keeping your health and seeking your goals. Don't care too much about your health that you won't move, and don't be too careless about your health to end up loosing it. Be moderate; ensure to tend to your wounds ( physical and psychological) before any serious damage take place, plus take the best precautions to prevent any bad injuries, AND follow your path to success.

- [ ] Development
  To try to experience new things or to expand your knowledge, or even to improve what or how you accomplish things. This element isn't from the main ones here, but it's essential and fruitful for your life generally and your path specially. It can come secondary, but don't underestimate it's huge rule when it's needed. Your goal won't involve only one side, one topic, or one skill, you will realize that it would require other skills and experiences you would have never expected but they are considered weapons you need to pass one obstacle or more. The more the merrier. So whenever you are open to new chances and different experiences, don't turn your back, but get them and do your best to come up with the most possible fruits ( experiences). Also knowledge will come in handy, specially when holding various types of info for more than a topic.
   But don't let it distract you from what's more important which is the goal itself, so don't spend too much time and get too much concerned about them even if they turn out to be amusing and helpful, that you would be taking another path not just a stop from your original path. Although, the skill or experience you got yourself into might turn out to be your most true desired goal, and so you will have to take a turn ( change your top goal). Either way, think carefully and deeply about what you desire more. Don't cross anything out, but give the priority to one .

- [ ] Social
We aren't born each in separate worlds for us not to need each other in certain times. So being too lonely isn't right, even if you don't prefer indulging or interacting with others according to your quite not sociable personality, but that doesn't mean to shut everyone out. Being on good terms and loving your family, and being in touch with them is necessary even toward your own goal since they make life more appealing and you have people who cares about you so much. Not to mention, having friends or at least one, even if you weren't sociable, you shouldn't mind spending time with a friend at school or after work.
In the other hand, there are people who cares too much to build various relationships and make friends, plus them being sociable that they interact highly with others. This could get out of control sometimes, since it adds to your busy list that already is stuffed with other matters. Having so much friends is awesome, but having too much and making more is kind of too far impossible, (unless thats your top desired goal), since you wont be able to catch up with all of them and in the same time deal with other matters. Moreover, the more you add to your friends list the less each of them will get to spend time with you, which might result in loosing some.
In conclusion, don't isolate yourself from others even if your path demands so , you should find another way to make progress toward success and see your family and friends, it's your desired goal so CREAT your own path and INCLUDE the stops you care about ( time to spend with your love ones).

- [ ] Keeping pace with technology
You are living in this era, so you should embrace that and not try to avoid adapting with it (even though there might be what you disagree with).By that I mean to walk along with the technology ( development of the time$
) of the era you are in. Don't keep sticking yourself with old technology instead of the modern one( if you could change that) because you are in a world that is survived according to it's rules and tools ( the modern technology). So stop tending to old technology that belongs to the past and have been so useful and vital for that only.
  No matter how unusual or unacceptable they seem due to your past life or traditions or points of view, you would be blind and stupid if you deny it's huge effecting role in the present time. In conclusion, be aware of this kind of development and try to benefit from the parts ( modern technology's devices) that effects positively your progress toward your goal.
   However keeping pace with technology will also expose you to it's poisonous side affects, so don't care so much about technology you don't find useful and very important to your life and path, so you won't get your soul trapped by it's limitless  bad affects, ( but knowing how they work isn't such a bad idea). So be aware and use what's required for your life and your path but don't get too attached to the level that you can't live without them. They are tools you use, they aren't the air you breath.

- [ ] Entertainment
   Yeah, this is so much required. Not only for the sake of avoiding any soul damages but also to have a taste of fun and excitement to relish your soul that worked hard and done well lately. Not only because you succeed but also because you love yourself that you would like to be happy and have fun from time to time. However as much as you want to spend some fun time, there's a goal you should accomplish to gain your true greatest happiness. In fact, entertaining yourself is a way to refresh yourself and distract yourself from the hard days ( either the unfortunate, tiring , or bored days),high your spirits, have a change in a day instead of following your usual routine and have some happy joyful time. Plus its a way to rest yourself so you would be ready to get up and face your problems or to get back to pursuing ( working) your goal.
   Entertainment is an essential healing element for the aspiring, but anything too much or too little isn't good. Don't let yourself get dragged and stuck in this element enough to not go back to what you want ( your ambition), but also don't prohibit yourself from this enthusiasm. Let it make you forget your worries but just for a certain period of time and choose wisely when to stop by it and when to keep pursuing your goal either.

- [ ] Budget
Your income, house, and possessions ( lands, houses, projects, investments, or personal stuff...etc.). For you to also survive in such a hard world , is to have a job to earn some money. No matter how much money might be controlling, a venom, or even a curse, the idea stays that money can you get you many things in this world including a warm safe house, easing equipments, food, transportation, entertainment, and other services and things but of course it can't buy you love, ethics, and happiness since it isn't the one who can grand your true happiness since it's gained if you succeed not the money, which will fail for such a mission.
In the other hand, don't let earning money become your obsession. Money isn't everything and it's not the most important thing here for you to focus TOO much on having money even though it's sometimes needed in certain obstacles on your path to success. Plus earning too much money will become a huge burden and source of worry for you. So be simple and don't ignore your need to earn money by getting a job, and don't focus too much about money that your progress gets too lower than before.

- [ ] Satisfying
You should have a moment and ask yourself if you are satisfied not about what you did but about what you are doing? Are you satisfied with the goal you are pursuing ?( is it the top ambition you desire?) Are you satisfied how your life is going ? Are you satisfied with having the friends you made and the family you are in ? 
  You should be satisfied about your present life, if not, change it even if it means you have to declare a war against the world ( that you won't sit and accept this unsatisfying life but instead you would fight until it becomes as you truly want).
  However be aware not to get yourself to feel too satisfied that any changes in your life or turn of events will ruin your world and so you would get upset or sad. Or you are too satisfied that there's no need to succeed your truly desired goal. You can make yourself satisfied by anything if you searched for it's advantages and decided to stick with them ( if you were interested in them despite the disadvantages) and ignore the disadvantages. Be so satisfied and grateful for how your life is and aim for more.

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