Since you seek success, so you probably will or are walking on a path that isn't always straight, contains many unseen bumps wether they are small or big, and holds many hard time-taking obstacles or even unexpected events that would crush you down when you don't expect them specially when you are raising. Even though no one can predict everything or even keep in mind all the possibilities that might happen, because of our lack of knowledge of every single thing until someone tells us the TRUTH about it or we experience and learn and understand them correctly, plus the fact that we don't know what will happen in the far or near future. However the unexpected or unseen isn't always because of an uncontrollable reason that we can't do anything about, there are other reasons we consider as mistakes, bad time organizing, wrong decisions, not being ready, or taking fast without thinking actions.....e.t.c, and most of the times the main reason for such a cause is not being cautious enough. I will explain the general points that you have to watch out and be careful about to succeed:1) BE CAUTIOUS WITH THE PEOPLE YOU WORK WITH
As I mentioned before in the INDEPENDENCY article, don't rely completely on someone because they might not do what you really wanted them to do out of disability, lack of knowledge, or untrue intention to actually help you. However in some cases, your path will make you work or rely on others in order to reach your true desired goal. At first, don't trust them completely in jobs that you can mentally and physically do , not that you are suppose to doubt them,or to let them feel down about theirselves, or to judge them without real evidence. You know what ! Don't do that since it would be complicated plus you need to trust your teammates, so what you actually need to do is let them do what they are meant to do in this teamwork, but after a period of time of you and them working together, you should be aware of how good and trustworthy each of them is, so you would be sure that they will do their role well when it's most needed ( when you all reach an important step to reach your goal ), if they really are not what they are needed to be, then when the matter of losing or winning against an obstacle, don't rely on them and be prepared to get disappointed if they stay the way they are. Since the goal mostly concerns you, then to be sure of success, there will be some time when it would be best for your goal to be achieved and handled alone, and sometimes you will need a teamwork that will be cooperative and ( most importantly) work together.
2) BE CAUTIOUS ABOUT YOUR STEPS
There are 3 main points you should consider when taking a step ( action, choice, or decision ) toward your goal .
First: AFFECTION
This point itself contains 3 important parts:
AFFECTION ON YOUR SUCCESS
Of course, since this step is taken to reach or move a step forward to your goal, the positive effect must be there. There would be some negative effects, nothing is perfect. The important here is which is higher and which is worth the other effect. Meaning if the positive effect on your success that you will gain is important and worth the negative effect that will be done on your path to success ( no matter how much it is, since we are measuring the importance not the amount ), then be sure to deal as much as possible with the negative effects. However, if the negative effects will hold you back more than what the positive effects will move you closer to your goal, then it's not worth it and it would be stupid to do that to on your path to success.
AFFECTION ON YOURSELF
Other than your desire to achieve your goal, you got to care about your health, social life, and your break. Your body being physically healthy is vital for you to continue on your path and do the actions you need to, so avoid damaging your health as much as possible, since it will sure get bad as long as you go on to your goal, but it shouldn't be too much that your body will one day won't be able to move or process, which will put your body at risk. Well, some goals will lead your health to be damaged or be at risk, but try your hardest to accomplish your true desired goal and succeeding with the least damage possible. Since in the end succeeding your goal is much valuable for you than your health. Be careful to not ruin your social life, if you really care and love having friends and family around, then be sure not to lose that, even if your top desire is to succeed your goal, you can't deny that having friends and family is so important and will cause you a big lose if you ignored them always. Almost all humans tend to get bored from a VERY LONG daily strick routine in life and so they try to break free. I know, that I mentioned before than as long as you desire anything, a will as powerful as your desire will appear that will do what it takes. However destroying that kind of boredom that will get in the way, isn't possible since we are not perfect to follow a one routine in our whole life without breaking it. Forcing yourself to be focused and work on your success for a life time ( always) can hold you down, since taking a break from time to time ( not too long and in the suitable time) will make you start fresh and make more progress than when you are bored and tired. But be careful to choose the break time without causing harm on your path to success. So when you feel tired or bored AFTER WORKING HARD AND SERIOUSLY STEPPING FORWARD, try doing sth you love or interested in, for example: watching a movie, going out somewhere, doing a hobby,.......etc. By time, experience, and attempts, you will maintain your social life, health, and break time without negatively affecting your path to success.
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