Life is a mixture

Watch and learn

   To be honest, this is a whole  problem, learning from others, expressing the need of experience, or confessing of no knowledge and so asking if from others specially if they were close ones, for some people that deny and pretend to not need such thing because of some illogical or silly reasons, such as : " If I asked him/her that, that will show that he/she is better than me ", " I don't need to learn from them I am good at it on my own", or " Who he/she is for me to learn from her/him ? ", even though learning from others ( not copying every move they do) is rather vital and important than weakness and low of dignity, you just have to look on the bright side of it, which is an important step to succeed in your field. This time also the article will be explained as points that you should do or watch out from while taking this step and learning from others: 

P 1: Don't let your emotions get in the way of learning what is important to your success field. 

     What I mean by emotions is emotions of pride, dignity, or  vain ( it won't be confidence since the mind will insist that you need to learn in order to achieve what you believe in yourself that you can ). I somehow felt that whenever I wanted to ask or learn sth from someone who thought of me as someone who wouldn't need to learn since I ( in his/her opinion) always know many things, or when I wanted to learn sth simple, stupid, or silly ( for others)  that I should have learnt before ages, all that because of being proud of myself that I can't make a move that will less this image. However, when I thought of how important to me what I need to learn, no one's perfect, people do mistakes, and that we were born without any knowledge so we don't know everything specially that there's a lot to learn and see in this world that our life itself isn't enough for us to learn and discover everything in this world, all that convinced me to focus on the importance ( the positive side ) of learning which is gaining more experience or information in order to succeed my true desired goal. In the other hand, if you really let those negative emotions ( because they have negative effect in this case)  get in the way, and so you keep avoiding to ask or learn from people, you will take more time and effort that isn't needed for you to success or you won't do it. Focus on what's more important, to succeed or to live behind these walls ( negative emotions). 

P 2:  Learning from others isn't copying them in every move. 

  When you don't know how to do sth, you ask for the proper way to do it, so you could understand it and maybe you will even come up with a better way to do it. For example, when your sport couch teach you how to play basketball, you should listen and learn, but time by time you will understand and the game, be aware that there's also other plans to form with your team to win against your rival team, you shouldn't copy every plan with no changes when you can create other one. On the other hand, some methods of learning sth mustn't change or else it would lead to other unsatisfying not needed results different than the ones required, like how to be a doctor or any other job, that is obligated with specific laws and rules that mustn't be broken for reasonable logical good reasons. Learning mustn't get in the way of CREATIVITY  or being DIFFERENT, but they two should go along together since learning leads to understanding that leads to creativity. 

P 3: There's always more to learn than what is learned. 

    We live in a huge wild world that gets deeper and deeper by time, discovering and figuring out facts, that they reached the atom and the layers of earth and sky, our solar system and what's beyond that, and so many other things, developing and knowing things about this immeasurable world is never going to stop. In this case, the field of SUCCESS is huge too, so don't expect that you know enough about your path to SUCCESS, there's always more to learn and understand, even after you created a new way that suits you for applying what you have learned or doing it. Whenever you have the chance to learn more, don't mess that chance, no matter who you are, the most famous scientist, the greatest musician, the best artist, the number one author, or whatever you achieved, you still have a long way that has no end.( Not meaning that you should know everything, just keep in mind that you can learn more and so improve more and more, whenever you need to )