( This article is wrote down and mentioned by explaining theories that I believe that they are actual facts according to evidences, and ending it with conclusions on what to do so )
( T stands for theory )
T 1 : Normality is like random unusual thoughts, it pops up within each of us suddenly.
Normality isn't a feeling that we are all born with, but rather a desire that sometimes pops up in us, it's the desire of having a secure usual expected state and life, where you can live without interruptions or changes, but to always live the SAME day as the one before. This desire appears in us because of tiredness of everything that happens around you without your control over it ( so much pressure ) and you not doing what you wish you would do because of the interruptions that appear whenever you intend to, and the boredom of the insecure changing life you are in and that forces you to change and not stay to do normal repeated activities. For example, a person who almost every day faces and try to solve problems with his/her friends or at work, face new different unexpected exams and rules in school or pressures at work that aren't always in his/her side, going back home to hear an argue between her/his parents or siblings, or who intend and want to do an activity almost everyday like watching or working on a hobby or talent, but doesn't find the time to do so, since almost everyday new unexpected things pops up that must or have to be done immediately. At that time obviously and logically, she/he would wish to have a normal life or a day without interruptions or pressures so she/he would live and spend a normal expected planned either at school or at work. It pops up in everyone, but it's like random thoughts, some of us ignore it or follow it after considering it deep, and so they will try to force their lives to become normal, and stick and maximize that desire to become a need and goal for them, so they try to do so. Normality is a desire that appears but it's up to each one of us to decide how much this desire is important, required, or worth trying to force life for each one of us, in order to take it as something to fight FOR or AGAINST.
T 2: Our World isn't normal and our life too.
Exactly, no matter how hard you look around or go searching, the world we live in isn't normal. The weather changes from time to time unexpectedly, that's why we make predictions not facts, since it's not secure always and doesn't follow a specific law, we know how each type or state of weather form, yet we can't put a certain detail information of what will happen on the following days up a head. The weather isn't like a known scientific experiment that has certain results on what will happen. Earthquakes or volcanoes explosions can happen suddenly based on scientific natural laws yet suddenly, since we sometimes are not aware of when not how. About life being not normal, it's because if live was actually normal, then why some of us fear the future or isn't known with the past without the historical records. If life is normal, then what will happen yesterday must happen tomorrow without any change even in the slightest detail. The actions and events that took place in the past will be repeated in the present and future. You would know when, where, and how you will feel happy or sad, your death, and all what will happen so nothing would seem new or surprising so your life will be built on facts not a single prediction or possibility, and so your life will be normal. However life isn't like that, we don't know what will exactly happen in our upcoming days and how we will feel about them, and so we are in position to be surprised of the sudden new events sit upon your path on life. No life is destined to be ALWAYS normal, because each one of us is different in way of thinking, in personality, in actions and saying, and in the amount and the way of affect that is caused from or to each one. You are surrounded by different changeable people and world, so of course your life won't be normal, and all your days won't be the same, even if you really been through a period of time where almost were normal with no surprises, the other days that you had lived or will live will surely be different.
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