Life is a mixture

CONSIDERATE !!!

     This is a very important property you should have as a human and as a desired goal seeker, since you live among people who will have a role in your path to SUCCESS and because you are a human that isn't living alone and who truly doesn't want the people to get further instead of closer to you, so you have to treat them thoughtfully. Some people think of being considerate is a weakness ( I say it's one of the proves of  strength since it's not that easy to be), pointless ( yeah, that's why people aren't as one, but each one is avoiding the other -sarcastically- ), or troubling ( it can cause you that but it's worth it, since you gain friendships and loving people, who will help you on your path to success).  To think and consider:

1) Their feelings

   We are all humans, who get affected emotionally not only physically and mentally, and so no one is immune of getting negative unwanted emotions ( loneliness, anger, sadness, disappointment, fear, betrayal .....etc.) neither of getting positive emotions ( happiness,  luckiness, relief, excitement, loved.....etc.). That's why treating others should focus also on not hurting them emotionally, except if it's what should happen. You should think about how this step you are taking toward your success will affect them emotionally and try as hardest to not hurt the feelings of the dear ones for you. Don't do reckless actions immaturely  ignoring the worry and sadness of your parents. Don't grow up caring about things ( education and friends) but not your siblings who keep hoping to spend time with you and so get lonely and sad. Don't let go of your true friends in the sake of making new ones, which will get them betrayed. Don't annoy people just so you could make fun of them. Don't abandon (when you don't have to) or ignore your family for a long period thinking only about success, they will miss you and feel sad and betrayed. Don't let someone live in fear so you could get amused by their reactions. Don't let others feel disappointed or sad when they planned a surprise which you haven't preferred or you are angry, be grateful ( that they wanted and tried to make you happy) at the moment more than angry ( over something they did wrong or out of being angry before the surprise, focusing on anger will ruin others moods at that time including yours). Caring about matters in your life doesn't mean you have to pretend that some actions, choices, or decisions that you take won't hurt others. Not only the love ones for you, you should think about, other people also. For example: rebuilding in a land without insuring the homes that you destroyed for that, doubling the hard work of your workers more than what a human could handle for a long time so your company would gain more money, using an invention to kill or ruin the lives of others so you could become popular or rich, choosing to ignore the needy people in front of you than to help them even though you can,.....etc. In some situations you will have to put a side your feelings ( sadness, tiredness, anger, pain, disappointment) so you could spend some time with your love ones whom you meet up with rarely, console them when they feeling terrible, congratulate them when they succeed or celebrating rare happy occasions like a wedding, a party, a birthday, check on them at least with a call, and most importantly BEING THERE ROR THEM IN THE HAPPY AND SAD TIMES. Because at those situations, they need you to have great time with you ( so you better not ruin it ) or to help them or console them ( which you won't be able to accomplish when focusing on your feelings first). Focusing on your feelings in certain situations like those will be pointless since you came for them to enjoy or help them, in other words you came TO CARE ABOUT THEM not yourself. Not meaning you should always ignore your feelings, but find the right suitable time to deal with your feelings but not in rare events that happen with your love ones. Try to always remember to consider how someone might possibly and negatively get affected before taking any actions, decisions, or a choices and try your hardest to do the right thing ( which won't make them feel that way or which leads to the feeling they should feel for their benefits like when you are confronting them with a crime or a mistake they truly did or even when you reveal the truth that should be told to them at that time.....etc.).