Almost every life process such as: growing, water life cycle, a landscape to be formed, building a generation, learning, civilization, strengthening your body, .....etc. needs time to be done. Although I have mentioned and explained that everyone has the ability to do anything but not everyone desires everything, so not everyone achieve everything, it all depends on the desire that create a will to overcome and succeed in anything, but after creating a powerful will from a powerful desire, you will have TIME, once as an ALLIANCE you must rely on and other an ENEMY you have to fight. Fighting time requires self-strength PATIENCE, but without letting go of your goal. There are goals which need time to accomplish no matter how hard or talented you are, in fact taking long time is the way to insure and achieve your success. However, a goal that takes time to succeed is rather hard and dangerous even if that person doesn't make much of a progress like the person who desires a goal that can be succeed faster, it's because of the possibility to give up that goal, to lose hope in ever achieving it, and to work lesser than you should be, all that negative effects of time can be overcame with PATIENCE on YOURSELF, on your LIFE, and on your true desired goal.
PATIENCE ON YOURSELF:
No one's perfect, we all have flaws within just as we have properties in ourselves that we love. Dealing with your flaws that effect on your daily life and specially on your way to SUCCESS is considered a struggle within no matter what your flaws are or how other people see them. Facing your flaws and conquering them is a step you will have to get through no matter how many times you run or ignore them, in the end you will have to fight them. I am not referring to make them disappear forever, because you seriously mustn't even though you can, for two reasons: 1) Flaws no matter what troubles they put you through, they are still considered parts of who you are, plus some good parts you love in you are related to those flaws you hate. In other words, deleting those flaws will also lead or get closer to vanishing the good parts. For example, caring for others is related to getting angry fast and acting wrongly in certain situations that involves others, as a proof of caring for others ( even though sometimes it could get out of hand or effect other badly), and once you try to always keep yourself calm and of course that requires not caring so much about others so you won't act angrily ( I understand that some of you might be thinking: "But some people care about others and in the same time get angry when necessary ", just keep reading to the end). 2) Flaws are like fears, whenever you beat one, another will appear. Although deleting your flaws isn't impossible but rather so hard specially if you intend to keep the good parts that are there because of those flaws, in that case you have to fight your flaw with a hand and defending the good part from disappearing, so think clearly before making this action if you truly deeply desire to get rid of flaws you despise but in the same time keep the good parts, not everyone won the fight without letting go of the other hand that is defending the good part. However conquering your flaws is the best solution, since it doesn't mean to ignore them nor destroy them, but rather control them specially in times when they can cause big damage such as in times you are getting so much close to SUCCESS, protecting or helping someone you dear, or when you are doing something super important. Thinking and applying on ways to control your flaws by testing more than way and acknowledging your flaws are steps must be taken to conquer and it's up to you.
Many people got annoyed and felt so much pain either physically or physiologically because of their flaws, which lead some of them to despair, losing hope of ever accomplishing anything because of them, or to hate themselves completely even though they have good parts within too, which might lead them to suicide. Of course, all that is expected from humans that either cause themselves suffering or others because of not conquering your flaws. You got tired of all that, right? Then you must put an end to all those terrible things from happening to you but hating yourself or giving up won't do that, so calm down and be patient on yourself to conquer your flaws and prevent anything terrible to you from happening using your mind and logic instead of focusing of how bad or painful it feels after everything that happened. You are going to fail in the beginning but if you keep trying and searching for effective ways for you no matter how long it would take, then failure won't be the last thing you did about your flaws but rather SUCCESS in conquering them.
PATIENCE IN YOUR LIFE
Since we are all not perfect so our lives are. As I have been analyzing and explaining in all my articles about obstacles you faced or will, because that's life it's a MIXTURES from bad terrible tiring things and from good great luxurious things also, so whenever you feel sad, angry, tired , alone, regret...etc., just know at least for few moments that you had or will feel happy, calm, relaxed, great, or proud. Obstacles, for instance: bad luck, surprised negative events when you are close to what you really have been working for, or losing someone you love or something you like. Bad totally unexpected situations happen , and when they are really not your fault but either way they affected you negatively, and as I mentioned life is mixture of what's bad and good, and in those situations we humans have no control over them except to watch out next time and learn from them. As for bad luck, we all have good and bad luck, but we are different with different souls and life, so different events will happen in each of us, sometimes it has something to do with how we react or consider things, and everyone have in their life breakdowns and raises, that's is the definition of FAIRNESS in LIFE. In conclusion, feeling upset or depressed about your life for long won't do you any good, but trying hard, learning, and being patient in passing all the obstacles to one day reach the good things even if that took you so much effort, attempts, and time, it's still worth it to really gain real success, happiness, and comfort.
PATIENCE ON YOUR GOAL
As I mentioned before, some goals require time that is used either to accomplish the goal regardless of the obstacles, do attempts to find out the most suitable effective way, or to overcome or destroy everything that stand on your way. Be patient if your goal requires so much hard and long training over and over after long period of time to find the best way for you. Be patient, if you have to wait very long to know if you succeed or not. Be patient, if it requires to keep fighting with short time to rest. Be patient, if it requires to lose more than a time, get embarrassed or in trouble in order to succeed. BE PATIENT on your long exhausting hard goal, DON'T LET GO no matter how much time passed or will to SUCCEED, after all it's the goal you DESIRE.
Have HOPE, try and WALK on your path, get up, PASS the obstacle, keep going until you reach your true desired goal.
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