What is love? Is love just that romantic attraction towards someone? Or is it just admiring someone to the point you trick yourself that you love them? Away from the romantic side... Is love just caring so much for a friend? Or is it the memories and times you spent with the person that you see your own traits, characteristics and charms in that person and just couldn't stop thinking about them till you convince yourself that what your feeling rrright there is "love".
No. Love is pain. It's much deeper than you thought and wiser than you imagined. Love is the only think that can kill you but make you alive to feel the pain. Or is it mistaking the pain for butterflies?
According to Google.. "Love is the most powerful emotion a human being can experience. The strange think is, that almost nobody knows what love is. Why is it so difficult to find love? That is easy to understand, if you know that the word “love” is not the same as one’s feeling of love."
Love isn't perfect, it isn't holding hands while walking across the beach during a sunset or having a romantic dinner in a fancy restaurant. Love is being there for your partner through thick and thin, love is overcoming obstacles, fighting together, holding on and never letting go. Love is knowing someone's weakness and not taking advantage of that, it's knowing their flaws and imperfections but loving each and every piece of them.
Love is scary and dangerous cuz often you give a piece of you to that person and the fear of them leaving is terrifying but if you have to fear that person leaving... Is it actually love? So many people are in love but not together and some are together but sadly.... Not in love. That's reality of this cruel and sad world we call home.
I know that love is just a shout into the void and that Love is a complicated thing, and you're never quite sure how things could possibly turn out to be. You're just gonna go out on a limb each time hoping for the best and patiently waiting for your happily ever after with a special person.
Yet learn to trust and learn to give your love to the right person and it'll be worth it I promise. Loving someone is complicated but remember in every relationship there's argument, fights and disagreements but when you both love each other, you'll look past it no matter what the issues are and you'll be happy. Don't fight love. You're human after all, you fall and break down and you have bad days but you have days where you're happy and full of life, think of happiness and be happy.
As my amazing grandad once said "life is too short for so much sadness" live life because you might not wake up tomorrow, nothing is guaranteed at all. Live while you can and be grateful for those around you. Please... Be grateful and trust people you love.
~well.. This chapter is uh.... Different I guess.. Sorry~
